Is it healthy to have a an agemate partner for a relationship?

[begum01]

No, guys should be older

No, girls should be older

Yes, it can be healthy

A total of 38 votes were cast: 15 girls and 23 guys. See detailed results

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't be so black and white about it. People reach the same points in life sometimes at different times. I remember turning down a woman because I was 4 years. Older than her and I thought that age gap was too big. She was the best match I've met so far. And she was smart enough to see it, my stupid ass wasn't. But I will say an age gap larger than 9 years. The odds for succes fall of tremendously. I wouldn't discount someone with a larger than 9 year age gap. But I wouldn't actively seek it. Odds are you are too far apart to have much in common.

[kaizenVik]

It should not be about the physical body age but the mental age ( level of maturity). Two persons who are of same age may have different maturity level and if they come along it would be difficult for them. So even if the two persons coming into a relationship are of different age but share same level of maturity, it would be easy for them to build relationship and better understanding.

[Guy13]

Guys should be older because women age quicker. And often when women inject and cut on themselves they age worse than if they did nothing at all.
Older guy younger woman no more than 8 year gap after 25 years old.

[Sasha0426]

Ok, how do women stop aging?

[Guy13]

@Sasha0426 They don’t stop aging and often when they try they look worse than when started. It is what it is. It is hard to find one who appreciates inner beauty for either sex.

[Sasha0426]

But, aren’t women undesirable when they age?

[Guy13]

@Sasha0426 I don't really know and really don't see the world the way many do. World will keep turning with or without me kind of think. Overthinking is unhealthy.

[kinggeorge007]

It can be healthy, but older guys with younger girls work out better in general. But each case has it's own perks, so it has to be case-by-case

[exitseven]

It is good to have somebody who lived in the same time period and has a lot of the same experiences.

[Alex8736]

in my opinion i look at age gap as someone's maturity level an ability to have intelligent conversations learning new things everyday

[CateM]

I'd prefer a guy my age

[WhitneySnow]

Yeah it’s healthy

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It shouldn't matter.