I met my boyfriend at work
And we always kept out relationship profesional and secret
Last week my car broke, my boyfriend lives near our office
So i stayed whole week living with him
Our nosey disgusting boss, who always shittalks all the employees , asked him if i moved in with him, since she saw us together at the morning
He said she slives this week until her car is fixed
Next week the bitch lost her mind and when she saw we talk on out table she shouted she can't stand see us together and im not allowed to talk to him anymore and i must be apart from him in the other part of the office
She said people talk about us
Which I find strange, what can they talk about? if we never talk about us with nobody.
I literally barely talk to them
My boyfriend works 17 years here and says she is jealous, she hates see him happy
I dont know how to act
What to do
For no job change its not an option for me
And we always kept out relationship profesional and secret
Last week my car broke, my boyfriend lives near our office
So i stayed whole week living with him
Our nosey disgusting boss, who always shittalks all the employees , asked him if i moved in with him, since she saw us together at the morning
He said she slives this week until her car is fixed
Next week the bitch lost her mind and when she saw we talk on out table she shouted she can't stand see us together and im not allowed to talk to him anymore and i must be apart from him in the other part of the office
She said people talk about us
Which I find strange, what can they talk about? if we never talk about us with nobody.
I literally barely talk to them
My boyfriend works 17 years here and says she is jealous, she hates see him happy
I dont know how to act
What to do
For no job change its not an option for me
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It sounds like you need to sit down in private with Human Resources. Yo probably will have to email and ask for an appointment after hours when manager is not on the site. HR is used to this kind of thing. Sometimes they do it before the beginning of the working day.
You should make certain that you have documentation in form of written comment and timeline in order. This is from Day 1 to Present. Once you do this then you better not make any errors and be an excellent Team Member etc...
Its small town family buisness we have no hr
Hr is my boss and her husband
Ita old style little company
Oh, I get that as I came from generational farmers and small convenient and car mechanic folks. Yeah, that is hell situation. I have seen phone flying across and office... Uncle and his Wife in the same Business and office space fighting about work and bringing in personal. I had to leave etc...
We had that with her nephew last summer
People flying from the stairs
Whats her problem tho?
She jealous?
Think so. It is hard to know or tell from my position.
Tell the boss to knock it off.
How?
I can't she is a boss
Tell her what?
Stop telling me what to do?
I work here so
I dont know why she cares about us
Then go to HR.
We dont have it
My hr is my boss and her husband