After 2 dates! He bought me iPhone, Should I sleep with him? What should I do?

[Talaee666]

After 2 dates , he bought me iPhone, what should I do? Should I sleep with him?

[quaranta]

Well, he bought you an iPhone on purpose to buy your vagina, of course. After 2 dates you can't "care" so deeply to a person to buy them something expensive because you "really care this person has a good phone", of course. It's more or less like paying a prostitute, if he expects sex after that.
Beside this, buying your favours by making you feel like you owe him something underlines an intent of manipulation in my opinion, and especially a total lack of skills, self esteem and communication skills. Why would he need to go for such methods to secure a partner to him? What does he lack of?
On the other side, is an iPhone enough for you to reciprocate with a relationship? Like, you give him your love, he gives you... an iPhone? Like...
Make sure he gives you a regular reciprocation with anything a relationship is made of, putting the required effort in the relationship, not material stuff to compensate his lacks. And feel free to break the deal and give him the iPhone back, if you end up not liking him during your dating process.

[SphynxUK]

Didn’t you own a phone already?
No one said you had to accept it and if you genuinely thanked him, why do you feel you need to sleep with him. Crazy…

[MaazHussain]

No, you should not feel obligated to sleep with someone just because they bought you a gift. Your decision to be intimate with someone should be based on your own feelings and desires, not on any material possessions they may have given you. It's important to prioritize your own values and boundaries in any relationship, and if you're not comfortable with the idea of being physically intimate so soon, then you should communicate that to him clearly and respectfully. If he respects you and your boundaries, he will understand and not pressure you into doing anything you're not ready for.

[Guy13]

He's easy and you didn't have to put an upfront deposit down. This sounds a little to easy and you should probably think twice about keeping it Sometimes, gifts like this one come with tracking applications. If so then this is his way to keep an eye on you. What happens if you are dating a super control freak?

At least you have not slept with him yet. I would get someone at an Apple store to check that phone out for tracking apps as they also send every communication to his phone. What happens if you sleep with a guy who thinks he owns you now because you accepted his phone.

[SteveSmith1985]

Jesus fucking Christ. He bought you an Iphone on the second date? RED FLAG

Should you sleep with him? only if you're a prostitute who accepts payment in Iphones.

[Anonymous]

Umm... yeah I would think iPhone equals sex or at least a blowjob. Oh wait, you're 37? How would you not know this?

[Opinion Owner]

Or give the iPhone back, you can't have it both ways.

[bowenw]

It seems like he is trying to buy you. I would not accept the gift.

[Darine123]

No don’t sleep with him till he gives you more and you really ok to have sex with him

[kinggeorge007]

Only if you want to. If not give it back and leave him alone.

[Anonymous]

If you do, then you're a "self marketing female". That means you have a price tag and you can be bought.

[Talaee666]

Then how can I thank him?

[loveslongnails]

If he has THAT much money to burn, make him wait. You say thank you like you would if he bought you a hot dog - ignore the price tag.

[Opinion Owner]

I was gonna say what @loveslongnails has just said.

But that still is not a good sign. A woman's true love isn't bought with money.

[Anonymous]

this screams grooming for human trafficking, regardless of your age.

[Anonymous]

iPhone is the bribe for your hole..
Sleep with him darling.

[AviatorTom]

I think you know why he did that... 😉

[Ms_Facesitter]

If you think he deserves it, go for it.

[ThomasDavid1989]

Sounds like a sugar daddy

[JamesRandiDebates]

Of course you should.

[Anonymous]

Seems desperate to me.