He doesn’t want a relationship but wants to sleep with me. Did I make a right decision?

[Anonymous]

My friend with benefits hinted many times that him and I can’t have a relationship because of racial and cultural differences.
Recently he started dating someone from his culture.
Yet he kept asking me to continue sleeping with him.
I told him we can’t because he’s dating someone. He said it doesn’t matter because he’s in a long distance relationship.
I really like him and the sex is great but I firmly said no.
I even asked him for a relationship and he said no.
I hope I made a right decision by saying no even though I’m sad.

[Oliverlogan263]

Omg girl, you totally made the right call here! That guy sounds shady as heck trying to keep you on the side while pursuing something "real" with someone else.

I know it's hard when the sex is bomb, but you gotta have some self-respect. You deserve way more than being his dirty little secret! How would you feel if you found out he was telling his girlfriend the same lies too?

Any man who's really into you won't half-ass it like that or make excuses. He'd make you a priority if he saw real potential. This clown just wants to have his cake and eat it too with no concern for your feelings.

Girl, do not settle for leftovers! You're worth so much more than being someone's booty call. Hold out for a man who chooses you fully and proudly, without hesitation.

I'm proud of you for knowing your worth and not caving, even though it hurts now. In time you'll heal from this and meet someone deserving who gives you their whole heart. Hang in there - you got this!

[Asker]

Thank you :)

[Oliverlogan263]

My pleasure 😊

[Anonymous]

The better decision would have been never to sleep with him period. But at least you are no longer doing so. As soon as you even entertain friends with benefits with any man, he will never take you seriously and is unlikely to get into a relationship with you. friends with benefits comes from a fallen society that tries to make normal, the activities that are a waste of time and bad for the soul.

[Asker]

You’re so right.

[Opinion Owner]

Your task now is to ensure you never do anything like that again. Think about it. What do you gain? If you did this before, what did you gain once the pleasure was over?

[Asker]

I swore to myself never be involved in something like this.

[Opinion Owner]

Did you ever make that promise to yourself before?

[boggboss]

How was it the wrong choice unless u don't mind being scummy and entertaining a cheater

[laly520]

better off that way