My brother says that I am jealous when I say something or asking something about his fiance. What shoukd I do?

[Anonymous]

My brother says that i am jealous when i say something or asking something about his fiance. For example i saw cakes on the kitchen table and i asked my mam about them. I was told that my brother got them for his fiance. I say to him that i saw the cakes on the table and he said that i was jealous. A few days before thst he bought her loads of sweets and a giant Easter egg. I can't say anything about his fiance without being told that i am jealous. I asked about his wedding and when it would be. He was very touchy about that. If he is working from home and the dinner is late, he says that his fiance would have it ready on the table as soon as he arrives. I do the best i can with getting the dinner done. What can i do about the way he is when say or ask something?

[Guy13]

Mind your Business. I’m going to do what I want no matter what you say. I’m getting tired of your jealous mouth. This is last warning to keep that trap shut…..

[Anonymous]

It is important to communicate with your brother in a way that is respectful and non-accusatory, and to consider his perspective and feelings. If he feels that you are being jealous or overly critical of his fiancé, it may be helpful to reflect on your own motivations and feelings, and to consider whether your comments or questions are coming from a place of genuine concern or from a place of jealousy or resentment.

If you feel that your brother is being unfair or dismissive of your concerns, it may be helpful to express your feelings in a calm and assertive manner, and to try to find common ground and understanding.

It may also be helpful to seek the guidance of a neutral third party, such as a therapist or counselor, who can provide support and guidance in navigating this dynamic and finding healthy ways to communicate and relate to each other.

Remember that healthy communication and relationships are built on mutual respect, empathy, and understanding, and that it is important to prioritize these values in all of your interactions with others.

It sounds like there may be some underlying tension or dynamics in your relationship with your brother and his fiancé that are causing these reactions. It may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your brother about your feelings and concerns, and to try to understand his perspective as well.

It is important to approach this conversation in a non-accusatory and non-judgmental manner, and to try to find common ground and understanding. You can express your feelings and concerns in a calm and respectful manner, and ask your brother to share his perspective and feelings as well.