What did you learn from your last relationship?

[WowwGirl]

Good or bad.

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Mine is
You can't fix stupid

[OlderAndWiser]

Don't ignore warning signs and don't give second chances to people who failed you the first time around.

[OlderAndWiser]

Thanks for MHO!

[mobiusforniner]

That love is putting someone else first, even if that means letting them go.

[Guy13]

That God is in charge... without a doubt I know existentially as do others around it all.

[cth96190]

What I learned was something that I knew already.
1. Women lie.
2. Women are always looking to trade up.
3. She is never ‘yours,’ it is just your turn.
4. Always have children DNA tested.
5. Believe nothing, suspect everyone.
6. In the absence of compelling evidence to the contrary, assume that you are being played.
7. Always transfer assets to a trust, so that they cannot be touched in the Family Court.
8. Do not tell the female that ownership of your assets has been transferred to a trust. Let that be a surprise when she gets to the Family Court. 🤣

[petitedollbabee]

Not to date someone without steady income, because they’ll end up mooching off of me and steal from me. And also not to forgive cheating. He cheated a few days into our relationship and I was stupid and forgave him since I thought “oh, the relationship is still fresh so maybe he’s just not used to being monogamous right now”. And then 6 months later he cheated again.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

Don't give someone a class ring and the reason why my late grandparents bought it for me because my dad couldn't buy us one, so he bought all of us kids a class ring so this girl I was dating loss the ring and to this day it remains a loss.

[TonyMetal___86]

Bad, i learned to trust no one and that people make empty promises and maybe love do not exists at all and if it does than it might have an expiry date...

Love is real just like the dinosaurs were real but now they are extinct, if you know what i mean!

[England4eva]

Just a bad choice in love. Don’t repeat the mistake and you will prevail. Choose a different type of women basically.

[TonyMetal___86]

@England4eva this ain't a bad choice, when you choose someone whom you thought is the right one but after years decided to change and turned into a whole different person 😏
The majority of women aren't like the magical giant jennie 😌

[England4eva]

I’m like a fairy god mother. Change your requirements and you will find your Lebanese queen 👑

[TonyMetal___86]

@England4eva haha, my system doesn't have an update anymore and as much as i want to feel real love and live beautiful moments again, i see it that it's like light years away from me or impossible 😄
Maybe someday i'll find a British queen who eats veggies and she might be gigantic who likes being in a pop up tent 🤣🤣

[England4eva]

Make sure when you walk her down the aisle she don’t accidentally tread on too with her boat feet 🙂

[TonyMetal___86]

@England4eva haha 😂

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I learned that I am indeed aromantic and asexual and that the likelihood of me being in a romantic relationship would probably never happen. It was good to get that confirmed so I could truly live my life in a way that makes me feel like myself.

[VIVANT]

Being honest isn’t enough you have to be explicitly clear and sometimes repeat yourself. A lot of people are looking to suit their preconceived views so it takes extra effort just to be heard as you are.

[Finchie40]

To not tolerate lack of intimacy and affection in a relationship without valid reasons , if they give you constant excuses , kick them to the curb cuz they are screwing someone else or panning to screw someone else

[RolandCuthbert]

To stop screwing over women. If I stopped I would cease feeling lonely, I would cease feeling afraid.

It has taken decades to learn that lesson.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

That I can be attracted to guys after all, especially ones who give off big daddy energy.

Also learned that I value honesty a lot more than he did.

[Anpu23]

Best lesson, that one of the problems with dating younger women is the issue of children. She wanted one and I didn't. Biological clocks are real.

[DermalPunch]

The INSTANT a person exhibits boundary-crossing behaviour, no matter how slight, do not go any further.

[Potteplante]

I learned that I'm worthy of love and respect - and how that actually looks like.

[LiamJHayden]

I learned that I am far better at friendship than I am at long term romance. My friendships last for decades. My romances last for months or weeks.

[loveslongnails]

Never date a girl with less sex drive than mine, or one that's totally straight and non-kinky. It's boring af in bed after a short time.

[OfMiceandMen]

That sometimes I am better off on my own and can wait for the right person.

[boobliker]

some are top noch with all the trimmings, and some are not!!!

[Mangospacho]

That you can completely cut off all contact with the world and disappear while disconnecting all means of communication…. just to avoid having the awkward breakup.

[DermalPunch]

Oh wow. How spineless.

[Mangospacho]

@DermalPunch It was. And she was well into her 20s. I didn’t realize people did that after high school still. 🤣

[DermalPunch]

Most people are about 6 years old inside.

[Straight2thepoint]

That my advisor was right. And I quote, " don't give all your love , or all your money because they will betray you with either one or both. "

[clampfan101]

Being absolutely perfect for you doesn’t mean they’re your destined life partner…