What do you think about second chances in short-term vs. long-term relationships?

[gayesblog]

Which one worth it more? I mean, what is the difference between giving a short-term relationship a second chance and giving a long-term relationship a second chance? And also, what do you think is considered a short term relationship? (Less than a year maybe?)

[Rosexøxø]

They’re nice 🙂.

Humanity trying to get it right with someone that they may never meet again and may have been the “best person for them.”

Both can be worth it depending on the cause of friction.

Sometimes the answer is just ‘no.’

Things work because we try and also because it naturally clicks.

If two people lack both try and click- not gonna work.

If just try- can work and they decide if they will like it- I. e. best try-ers are the arranged marriages

if just click- can work and they decide if they will like it- I. e. passionate compatible lovers who may lack communication and responsibility not just for self and society- but TO EACH OTHER.

both click and try is ideal. The love is consistent and the compatibility makes it less stressful- USUALLY.

The facts remain:

• lot of cruel people out there
• lot of hurt and messed up people out there too

these two points mean each person has to be weighed

Are they good people, will they try to grow and become better versions of self? Will they try for others in their lives?

Short term is anything that wasn’t a life time lol

short term: anything from a day to….

7 years probs.

I think there’s a psychological study that said if “you’re friends with someone for 7 years” the likelihood of staying together and being life long friends is great. I don't know if that’s accurate… and I wanted to say 3 years short term and 4 plus is long term but eh… I’ll leave it with the lucky 7.

Everyone can decide for themselves.

[Pinay_ako]

Depends on why need another chance if it already ended… how did it end in the first place? That will answer if we can give this relationship another chance

[Guy13]

Chance is not a thing. In this exampling Chance is the extension of one’s heart and willingness to subject oneself to increase pain and pleasure. Length of Relationship has no determination as it, in reality, does not correlate to willingness too or not too Risk heart and form Relationship.

Should I choose to allow for Relationship. And if I choose too move foreword is it both an individual and collective Choice within same time and place Relationship.

Is there agreed upon Intention and Choice. Are you both on same page? Can I expect it to succeed without both acknowledging Intent and hopeful Vision or Outcome….

[serious]

Well not everything deserves a second chance. It depends on what happened, depends on what the person did.

[razelove]

Really that would depend on both people, why you're having an issue and the nature of the relationship. I've had some relationships I tried hard to make work because I really enjoyed my partner, one I tried hard to get out of, and some where I would look for any excuse to bounce out just trying to test the water and be with someone rather than have ONS and NSA.
Once the puppy love is over, time isn't really the best indicator there, at least not to me. Having kids is a different story though.

[Anonymous]

I'm not really even clear on why you'd NEED a second chance on a short-term relationship. It's short-term--what would've happened that would require a second chance?

[SpudSteer]

Well I had a 10 month relationship and I broke it off and I wish I didn’t she was the perfect one but I do believe for us there isn’t but being honest is very helpful

[Agape93]

I don't give second chances.

[serious]

That is good.

[itsalyssaagain]

It really depends on what happened.

[karengrady]

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