I have been in this relationship now for about 2 years almost and I feel he think he is going to get my money and have me pay for his college. I work currently running my own business and a part time job and he doesn’t work and isn’t searching for a job due to his mom telling him to wait until after highschool. I enjoy making money and working as I like to keep my mind busy. But sometimes he tells me and says I will be paying for his college and everything in the future because I’m going into business management. I don’t want him to think I’m paying for him all the time and I never do sometimes we go out to eat and I’ll pay but most of the time and he doesn’t offer to pay my mom back. I tell him to and force him to whenever I pay.
Also I feel very disrespected by him at times. Sometimes he will raise his voice and yell at me. For example one day we where heading to school and I was telling a story but he kept asking questions so I told him I was getting to that part and then he raised his voice and yelled at me causing me to cry all the way to school. There are multiple accounts where he had raised his voice very aggressively and yelled scaring me. I was in two abusive relationships before him he’s been the most respectful one of all. But sometimes it scares me being with someone who I feel is always mad at me or yelling in some way. I sometimes question being with him or not but I know sometimes I can yell too but I didn’t used to until he started to yell at me I’m just so fed up and tried I don’t know what to do. I’m slipping and know that. We are going to the same college but not into the same major. I just hope this gets better over time. I really need some advice on help. I’ve talked to him once but it didn’t seem to help. I’m going to be speaking to him again soon.
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By dumping him. You will never get respect as long as you date a man like that, not even from that person you date.
maybe the problem is inside u...
but probably he does not deserve you.
Get rid of this freeloader. You can do way better.
Agreed
@Little_Bumblebee thanks. Hopefully she will follow that advice.
In these situations you will have to really see the light yourself, even if you know it, you have to realize it.
So maybe she's not ready for that.
But yeah, I do hope she'll follow it
@Little_Bumblebee it sounds like she is talking herself in to it.