Step 1. Be ungrateful. Failing to say thank you and showing appreciation for what he does.
Step 2. Be rude or dismissive. He comes to you with an issue or tries to open up and you dismiss him
Step 3. Be insufferable. Speaks for its self.
Step 4. Be entitle. Act as if you're entitled to any of his labor.
Step 5. Be uncaring. Speaks for its self.
Lady in the video checks all of the boxes. she's not worthy of marriage.