Ugh, another waiting ‘til marriage question?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I have been dating for two years. I was on board for the waiting ‘till marriage thing initially because I had a tough time in school, but now I’ve done a ton of spiritual growth and I’m turning 30 in two weeks. I know it’s important not to rush, but the lack of intimacy is no longer fair and he can’t afford to propose to me for a while. I’ve experienced loss and overcame enormous medical setbacks in my life. Reached out to a faith based counselor to give this a fighting chance. I love God but what other growth do I need besides saving money? Any advice would be appreciated to decide if I’m going to end this or not. Thanks all!

[Avicenna]

If you aren't getting what you want and it's important to you, don't stick around and be unhappy if you know things can't be fixed.

[Adam1978]

I didn't think gay people had this idea, it's completely pointless. There is a reason for it between man and woman, due to pregnancy and bonding. But with two dudes, there is no point.

[misogynistic_pig]

Of course, you can ask any question you want.

I am here to help you.

[Anonymous]

Remove the religious baggage from your life, and you will be able to think more clearly.

[In_Trance]

I don't understand how you can be gay and still waiting for marriage. Isn't that an oxymoron?