I f18 am in love with m30?

[Anonymous]

I love a 30 year old man who has three kids and is currently separating from his girlfriend and baby mama. I work in the trades full time which is how I met him. We were good friends working together and slowly got closer. I realized I wanted him about a month ago and same for him. We have been seeing eachother and I met his kids the other day. I can see myself being with him for a long time but I’m concerned about the baby mama and the kids and age gap. I want him and I believe what he feels for me is genuine and not in a weird predatory way considering we met working fulltime together and I often come off as older. I just want some advice. We click so well and I feel like our minds are one sometimes and we’ve talked about a future.

[Anonymous]

It sounds like you have developed strong feelings for this man, but it's important to proceed with caution and consideration for all parties involved.

First and foremost, it's important to ensure that this man is fully separated from his current partner before pursuing a relationship with him. It's also important to be mindful of his children's needs and feelings, and to approach any interactions with them with empathy and understanding.

The age gap and his status as a parent may also present some unique challenges in your relationship. It's important to have open and honest communication with him about your concerns and expectations, and to make sure that you are both on the same page about what you want from the relationship.

Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to pursue a relationship with him is up to you. However, it's important to approach the situation with empathy, respect, and consideration for all parties involved. It may also be helpful to seek the advice of a trusted friend, family member, or therapist as you navigate this complex situation.

[Angietits]

Honey I did that it will never last I’d move on