I've been mgtow for 4 years but I fell in love recently?

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I don't know what to do , got confused after all these years , she was my friend from my very young age but every time we set , i think something happening btwin us , so confused... ,

Answer 1

Anonymous

Many mgtow are temporary. You don't have swear them off forever. I was mgtow too. For a our as long as yourself. Recently started up the baby making process with my now fiance. Doesn't mean you have to follow it religiously. Just work on you and when you find a keeper go for her
And if not so be it.

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aliiiek

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So what happen , what makes u get out of mgtow?
Opinion Owner

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It depends on why you are mgtow. You can be mgtow for many reasons. One can be to focus on education and career first. So you swear off distractions like women till you're good and ready. For me it was not committing till I found someone worth the time of day. I wouldn't engage in flings with low grade chicks
aliiiek

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Well for me was the fail of my last deep relationship and the very very horribles marriage and divorce laws

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aliiiek

So what happen , what makes u get out of mgtow?

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Opinion Owner

It depends on why you are mgtow. You can be mgtow for many reasons. One can be to focus on education and career first. So you swear off distractions like women till you're good and ready. For me it was not committing till I found someone worth the time of day. I wouldn't engage in flings with low grade chicks

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aliiiek

Well for me was the fail of my last deep relationship and the very very horribles marriage and divorce laws

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Wester1967 | 325 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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Same thing happened to me with my ex wife. Turned out she was just stunting to impress her college boyfriend who dumped her and treated her like crap. Once you give away you freedom, it is a bear to get it back.

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Anonymous

Just ride it and see where it goes man. Just remember to keep your guard up. Never put more energy in to her than she'll put in to you and it's impossible for her to get the best of you. Good luck man!

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boobliker | 249 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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talk is the only way here hope you get what you both need then!

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EaterPeter | 1.1K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

You will still be respected as fallen in line of duty. 😉

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aliiiek

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What dose that mean , I don't get it
EaterPeter

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Most of us falls in love. There is hardly anything in our control. It's ok if you have fallen in love. Others will still respect you as former mgtow.
aliiiek

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Ahh i see , i always wished to have total control of my mind and body
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EaterPeter

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Practice

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aliiiek

What dose that mean , I don't get it

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EaterPeter

Most of us falls in love. There is hardly anything in our control. It's ok if you have fallen in love. Others will still respect you as former mgtow.

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aliiiek

Ahh i see , i always wished to have total control of my mind and body

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EaterPeter

Practice

Answer 13

Anonymous

Just decide whether she is compatible, loveable company or not.

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aliiiek

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Actually i don't know that , i think positive about it , but you know most of disasters start with thinking positives at first , i use to see how strong loves ends up divorce
The second problem is i can't just think about her anything short term like i use to do with several girls during these years , anything short term definitely hurt both of us

Answer 14

aliiiek

Actually i don't know that , i think positive about it , but you know most of disasters start with thinking positives at first , i use to see how strong loves ends up divorce
The second problem is i can't just think about her anything short term like i use to do with several girls during these years , anything short term definitely hurt both of us

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Jesuswasahue

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MGTOW is fucking stupid. You've let it define you and now you don't know who you are... SMH

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aliiiek

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Well u got the last part right

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aliiiek

Well u got the last part right

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Avicenna | 10.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

Seize the day, ask her out

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This_Is_My_Opinion8 | 220 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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And why are you mgtow? What made you do that?

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aliiiek

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A very tough break up , and bad laws from marriage and divorce , see in america men losses the half of his stuff , in iran men will lose everything
This_Is_My_Opinion8

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I am sorry for the bad breakup. As far as divorce goes a few things. As long as your wife works just like you she will not be able in the divorce to take half of what's yours. Second, half of marriages work. And of that half that doesn't, 70% is initiated by women. So the odds that she will divorce you are around 30%. Not a lot on average.

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aliiiek

A very tough break up , and bad laws from marriage and divorce , see in america men losses the half of his stuff , in iran men will lose everything

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This_Is_My_Opinion8

I am sorry for the bad breakup. As far as divorce goes a few things. As long as your wife works just like you she will not be able in the divorce to take half of what's yours. Second, half of marriages work. And of that half that doesn't, 70% is initiated by women. So the odds that she will divorce you are around 30%. Not a lot on average.

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Tstrbrainer | 758 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Does she seems to reciprocate?

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aliiiek

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Maybe , i feel so , not sure by the way
Tstrbrainer

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Is she worth it?
What makes you suddenly feel like this?
aliiiek

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She was a very old friend from childhood we use to had great memories together , i saw her again after 16 years i think
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Tstrbrainer

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You know that it doesn't make her perfect, right?
aliiiek

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Well its battle between mind and heart
Tstrbrainer

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If you really want to give your heart a chance, maybe try study her, her previous relationship choices etc
aliiiek

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Good idea 👏👏👏👏
Tstrbrainer

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All the best