Why do people get mad that they get dumped for being assholes?

[Anonymous]

Friendships.. relationships... business relationships?

[OfMiceandMen]

Typically, the asshole prefers to do the dumping, it goes along with their charm. They can't stand the idea that the other person has a mind of their own and dumped them for being an asshole.

[Asker]

makes sense. I am a bitch/asshole. Accepting things how they are and not trying to make situations for what they are. Because to me the people I dump tend to make things into more when it's not. Aka gas lighting or playing mind games. So we fuck and I leave them be. Now I'm the bad guy? Bet

[Hanrej]

Being an asshole is not an objective fact. I've heard plenty of people call me asshole when I was the only one to put effort in to maintain our relationship. Then all of a sudden when I stopped and focused on myself entirely all the flattery began.

My point is, from my perspective the people I left were assholes, from theirs I was for not remaining loyal. Every story has two sides and different values to take into account. When determining who your friends are, make sure you speak you mind and your reasoning. Those who seem to understand you are your friends, others are going to be named assholes by you eventually.

[magiusX26]

would like to add this perspective to what you said so well sir. to people in general here.

stop and think how often you see/hear someone being called (even pointed out as) an asshole in public that is the employee of some place dealing with the public just because they did not cave into a customer's demand/s (often something that could risk the employee having a job) . or some of the documented "karen" antics to include the outside of employment related stuff.

[MysticAngel5000]

Because they're as*holes! Lol They don't think they're doing anything wrong whatsoever. It's always someone else's fault. That's why they're as*holes :) lol

[MemeSupreme]

you just answered why in the question. they're assholes

[Bully-O-Frog]

They're assholes. Their default existence is leaden with tracr amounts of anger at all times, and entitlement makes it worse.

Ever hear a mother tell their son to keep trying and eventually no will be yes? That shit. It's not good advice.

[Exterminatore]

Because they’re assholes. Assholes act like…well…assholes.

[LiamJHayden]

Because they are a-holes and get angry when they don't get their own way.

[007kingifrit]

this question makes me think something is wrong with... you. how many times have you rejected otehrs for "being an asshole" it isn't that common at your age

[Asker]

If something is wrong with me then fuck it. If I'm the asshole... that's okay. I've accepted that I'm not perfect. But to me most people who arnt assholes... do so much to rub me the wrong way. I don't have to list it. But it's okay I'm okay. I'm over it.

[BrickBiggems]

Because there assholes. They get mad anytime they don't get what they want.

[exitseven]

Most assholes don't have a clue. Believe it or not there are some people that consider me to be one.

[wannabecuck-2]

They werent expecting. If they did expect they wouldn't treat u like one. the ones that value never treat u like one walk away girl.

[Asker]

Doesn't make sense to me. But ready my comments

[wannabecuck-2]

They werent expecting to get dumped. If they were expecting they wouldn't have treated u like an asshole. Read everyones sharing their perspective.

[Anonymous]

i don't know ask demi she's an asshole she would know these things

[Opinion Owner]

i don't know ask demi she knows all about being an asshole

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Because they're assholes

[Wise4myage]

I suppose their ego's can't handle it, or they are in denial.

[ThomasDavid1989]

Because weren't they "great" in the beginning. What made them all the sudden "become assholes"?

[AdithyaR]

Because... wait for it... they're assholes.

[EclipsedMoonlight]

One word *narcissists*

[anon1903]

Because they aren't self aware assholes

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It's pretty black and white here, lmao.

[peedy]

Because they are assholes

[Softlife808]

If they were such assholes why do you care?

[westsideman]

Some people are really toxic as hell.

[noohair]

Ego?