What is so bad about being an asshole, guys whine and cry they can't get a girl because they're to nice, and women whine and cry that their boy friend is a jerk, so they go to the nice guy and talk to him about. The nice guy comforts her and tells her things like you deserve better, and she goes oh your so nice any girl would want to be with you. Funny thing is he never gets a girl.
Ok so I am the type of guy who gets the girls because I am a jerk or an asshole and its funny cause not matter how much of a jerk I am they keep coming back.
Seems like the jerk is getting a bad rep yet he's getting all the girls, while the nice guy is getting a hug or a kiss on the cheek. Come on guys seriously if being nice doesn't work why don't you try to be a jerk it's obvious women want that so why don't you give them what they want?
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My boyfriend is an asshole. He's egotistical as well. Nonetheless, for the past year and I half I have been catering to him. I am the sweet, loyal, perfect girlfriend that cooks, cleans, and never complains when he goes out with friends or has to cancel a date because he needs to study. Everyone has always told him "you need to appreciate her more, you'll never find anyone better" I am not ugly, I don't have low self esteem. I've stayed with him because I like men who are slightly dominant. Men who can call the shots.
I'm going to leave him because the one thing I want from him, emotional security, he is too immature to give. He's afraid of engagement, of settling down, and I'm tired of waiting for my boy to drop his balls and become a real man. A man who remembers anniversaries, who holds the door open, who consoles me when I'm crying (instead of saying crying doesn't solve anything). A man who can be strong yet sensitive. A man who can own me, love me, and be willing to commit to me...a "good, nice guy".
In the end, I was attracted to my "bad boy" because I thought he would mature and grow up while dating me, and still retain some of that cocky attitude that I find so attractive. But, it's in his nature, and every other bad boys', to not change. To keep playing the same games. And yes, eventually the woman will get tired of it. I'm a "catch" :p cook, clean, don't party, drink, or smoke. The perfect trophy wife, so to speak. And I pride myself on having these attributes, I know my boyfriend loves to brag about me, and I love pleasing him. But at the same time, this needs to be reciprocated, and asshole bad boys don't care about anyone else but themeselves.5
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