I ask this because my philosophy in life is to avoid making my own mistakes by learning from others'. One thing I learned early on is that being an asshole is better than being a nice guy. I've been an asshole my entire life, and even that hasn't been enough to get even a single girl even the least bit interested.
The way I see it, either my looks are so bad that even my attitude can't mask that, or girls don't actually like assholes and they just get away with it because they're good looking. Either way, that puts me out of the running. What are your opinions on this?
it works for people who are assh$@#s. being something you are not is unattractive because it's the wrong energy. as well, these aholes don't stay in relationships anybetter than anyone else.
it's more about being your best authentic self. You can be a super nice guy and walk old people across the street, but do it with confidence.
the problem is you are being dishonest and not clear... emotionally. Women read emotion. I seriously doubt it has anything to do wit your looks, they are not so important.
lastly if a girl wants an a-hole, you don't want her back. youdon'tneed that misery.
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I'm not sure, bro. I'm not the type of guy that gets women by being a jerk.
I'm the type of guy that gets no women and stays home alone all day and plays video games and jacks off
Seems weird I wouldn’t like an asshole lol. I’m shy as it is and would want a guy to be as nice and gentle as possible ! If a guy gets a bunch of chicks by being asshole yea he is probably just good looking or something
Believe it or not, people don't like people with asshole personalities.
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It absolutely works... don't worry about it if it takes longer than you expected to be successful with attractive women, because if you're really an asshole, you'll always win in the end, sir.
Being an asshole works in some respects. I have worked for a few assholes so it must be almost a prerequisite to being a boss but probably not so great if you want a girlfriend.
Yes, it does for some women.
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