Why does he think I want a relationship with him when I never said I wanted one?

[Anonymous]

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I never said anything about wanting a committed relationship to him**

[ManOnFire]

That's not enough to tell us anything. You never said you wanted a committed relationship with him, but did you say something else to make him think that? What other details are there to this situation?

[Asker]

Look at my update

[ManOnFire]

I saw it. It still doesn't say much about the situation, only that you "never said anything about wanting a committed relationship," but are you sure you didn't say anything else we don't know about?

[Asker]

I ain't say shit lol

[ManOnFire]

Okay

[noohair]

Seems like you were giving out signals, and men suck at hints and signals. Did you ever tell him what you wanted or did you use him for what you got? Probably not. Women can be assho! es too.

[Asker]

We used eachother. Lol

[Asker]

I'll admit I can be a bitch
Accountability and what not

[noohair]

Accepting your faults is the first step to becoming a better person.

[Asker]

I never was a bad person I was just not self aware. He tried to play games with me and I played it harder and now he's hurt?

[richardcory]

People are good at convincing themselves that things they want to be true are true.

[Asker]

Huh nigga?

[Anonymous]

because you led him on making him think you did you strung him along played with his heart and emotions just to give yourself an ego boost and because you're attention seeking

[Opinion Owner]

because you're an asshole

[Asker]

Lol I wouldn't and never did that love

[Opinion Owner]

well how else would he of gotten the idea from

[Asker]

No fucking clue. I feel there are some people men or women who maybe entitled? Feel entitled? Or a possession of someone

[Opinion Owner]

well then you led him on and manipulated him and his emotions

[Opinion Owner]

you led him on and manipulated him and his emotions through your behavior and actions maybe not so much your words

[Asker]

Not necessarily. He knew I liked him. Then I didn't. He was playing with my emotions the whole time. And then got mad when I left him alone for good? What?

[Opinion Owner]

try to talk communicate

[Asker]

It's too late. He's shown me enough. He's abusive

[Opinion Owner]

and you're manipulative

[Asker]

If you think so. Because I showed him so much interest
And then he played with my feelings first lol I wasn't interested for some reason. Then he chased after me... so I was petty back. Whole this is childish but it literally doesn't matter to me. I'm just giving him some peace of mind. He wants me to chase him and that isn't okay

[Opinion Owner]

so why weren't you interested?

[Asker]

I was into him lol
I have trouble making my mind up.
Especially when things happen too fast.
I sound like a guy. After a guy nuts he withdraws he's gotta think right lol
But it just looks that way
I tried to rekindle things but he was VERRYYYYYYYYY like no. So I respected it and left him alone I don't know why guys want me to chase

[Opinion Owner]

so you were stringing him along playing with his emotions like i said

[Asker]

I wasn't omg

[Asker]

I don't know how you got that outta what I said

[Asker]

He strung me along tf

[Michael09]

You may lead him to believe that you want a relationship.

Is your relationship friends with benefits? tell him that is all it is