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Please let me know if how I feel is valid.
Does he actually want to be with me or just feels obligated?
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It sounds like you have been through a lot in this relationship and have dealt with a lot of betrayal and hurt. It's understandable that you're feeling frustrated and unsure about the future of your relationship.
It's important to remember that trust is a key component of any healthy relationship. While it's possible to work through infidelity and rebuild trust, it requires both partners to be committed to the process and willing to put in the effort to repair the relationship.
It's also important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings and needs in the relationship. It's not fair for him to dismiss your concerns or make you feel like your problems are not important.
Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to stay in the relationship is up to you. It may be helpful to seek out the support of a therapist or counselor to help you process your emotions and make a decision about what is best for you and your children.
Remember that you deserve to be in a loving and respectful relationship, and it's okay to prioritize your own happiness and well-being.
Wow that situation sucks. He probably just doesn’t want divorce problems at this point and having a roommate that is available for casual sex is a better alternative. Unfortunately leaving him might not be a good outcome either with those kids and all that time invested. But yeah to answer your question he probably feels more obligated
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Figured. There is no divorce. It’s more splitting the small family we created. I feel like for his kids sake he will deal with this relationship so they can have both parents in the house. But what is that showing them when mom and dad show no love to each other and act more like roommates?
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It sounds like you have been through a lot in this relationship and have dealt with a lot of betrayal and hurt. It's understandable that you're feeling frustrated and unsure about the future of your relationship.
It's important to remember that trust is a key component of any healthy relationship. While it's possible to work through infidelity and rebuild trust, it requires both partners to be committed to the process and willing to put in the effort to repair the relationship.
It's also important to have open and honest communication with your partner about your feelings and needs in the relationship. It's not fair for him to dismiss your concerns or make you feel like your problems are not important.
Ultimately, the decision of whether or not to stay in the relationship is up to you. It may be helpful to seek out the support of a therapist or counselor to help you process your emotions and make a decision about what is best for you and your children.
Remember that you deserve to be in a loving and respectful relationship, and it's okay to prioritize your own happiness and well-being.
Wow that situation sucks. He probably just doesn’t want divorce problems at this point and having a roommate that is available for casual sex is a better alternative. Unfortunately leaving him might not be a good outcome either with those kids and all that time invested. But yeah to answer your question he probably feels more obligated
Figured. There is no divorce. It’s more splitting the small family we created. I feel like for his kids sake he will deal with this relationship so they can have both parents in the house. But what is that showing them when mom and dad show no love to each other and act more like roommates?
Yeah it’s not good. Maybe couples counseling could make a difference