Why am I like this? I want to improve?

[laurlaur101]

I don't know why this but seems like I shouldn’t try to date anyone because I get fixated on certain people and dwell on things seems like I can’t get out of this cycle

[caring__1]

People find it easier to focus on others rather than themselves, yet the only one they'll have any control over is themselves. When we look at others, everything appears 2-dimensional, whereas when we look at ourselves, everything appears 20-dimensional, so we find it easier to avoid our own personal growth and focus our attention on "helping" others to grow. Focus on what you can do to provide what's important to you rather than expect others to meet your needs. Keep tabs on your own personal growth rather than focus on what you believe could or should be. You're more likely to be the solution you seek rather than others. See others as the icing on the cake, not someone who will make your life real, meaningful or fulfilled. Rely on your own abilities, and you'll probably be a happier person.

[noohair]

You are young and you don't understand yourself yet. Knowing that there is a pattern, is the first step in fixing yourself.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you get just attached easily which is normal

[laurlaur101]

I guess so but I don't know why

[AvinashWalton]

It's a normal things so ignore and be happy in your sweet life!

[Anonymous]

You're obsessive.

[laurlaur101]

What’s supposed to mean? Bc it’s not bad to the point where I’ll go to their house

[laurlaur101]

I’ve never done rhat

[In_Trance]

Daddy issues?

[laurlaur101]

I don't know how it is that when my dad is around and spend time with him