Do you think they are nasty?

[Anonymous]

So my sister is in a situation with her boyfriend. They have been together for 4 years but only seen eachother once in 4 years due to distance and visa issues. Her "boyfriend" got with another girl and the girl found out about my sister. The boyfriend met up with this girl to tell her the situation and that he loved my sister. The girl then video called my sister while the boyfriend was explaining the situation and was laughing when my sister answered. She also start taking selfies of her and the boyfriend when the boyfriend was not looking and sending them to my sister. What do you think if this situation and the behaviour of the girl and boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

It sounds like the behavior of both the girl and the boyfriend is disrespectful and inappropriate. The fact that the boyfriend got with another girl while in a long-distance relationship with your sister is concerning, and the fact that he met up with the other girl to explain the situation while on video call with your sister seems insensitive and callous.

The behavior of the girl who found out about your sister and then proceeded to video call her and take selfies with the boyfriend in front of her also seems disrespectful and hurtful. It's important for people to be respectful of others' feelings, especially in situations like this where emotions are likely running high.

Ultimately, it's up to your sister to decide what she wants to do in this situation and to prioritize her own emotional well-being. It may be helpful for her to have a candid conversation with her boyfriend about what happened and to set clear boundaries for their relationship moving forward.

[Momer91]

She must leave him , if he cares about your sister should have stopped other girl right away , she must have loved him that's why she acts crazy , I am a boy and know we know when to stop if we feel someone like us , but he didn't

[Anonymous]

To be completely honest, I don't think that's a real relationship, he didn't respect the bond he had with her, clearly the other girl doesn't care about the relationship your sister has with this guy and 4 years to have been in person just once is not enough, even if they're both adults. For the sake of your sister's emotional well-being, I would suggest to end that relationship, in the end is up to her, but as her sister, you should try your best to help her make the best decisions. In conclusion, yes the girl and the guy are nasty, your sister needs to get out of that relationship.

[Guardian45]

That's EFFED UP! Your sister has a problem. That woman is psychopath/manipulator.

[Blues36]

depends on person