I just ended things with my fiancé, who moves out?

[LKJYissue]

We moved into a new apartment together. So, which one of us moves out?

Updates

+1 y

by the way, he moved out. The apartment is mine.

[Anonymous]

Ending a relationship and deciding who should move out can be a difficult situation. The answer to this question depends on a few factors, such as whose name is on the lease or rental agreement, who can afford to continue paying rent on their own, and who has a better support system in the area.

If both of your names are on the lease or rental agreement, you might need to consult with your landlord or property management company to see what options are available. You could also try to negotiate with each other to see if there's a way for one of you to take over the lease or find someone to sublet the apartment.

If only one of your names is on the lease or rental agreement, that person may have more legal rights to stay in the apartment. However, it's important to consider the emotional toll of living with an ex-partner and whether or not this is feasible for both of you.

Ultimately, the best course of action is to have an open and honest conversation with your ex-fiancé about the situation and see if you can come to a mutually beneficial agreement. You could also consider seeking the advice of a mediator or attorney to help you navigate this process.

[mommymommymommy]

Whoever gave the most upfront, gets the apartment

[mommymommymommy]

Yikes

[OfMiceandMen]

If I were him, I would move out, especially, if it was somewhat unexpected. The best thing for him, is to start fresh and not be in a place that reminds him of you anymore.

It would be in his own best interest and make it easier to get over you.

[OfMiceandMen]

Re: Update... I think that was a good choice on his part.

[Anonymous]

You left, so you leave.

[LKJYissue]

That seems fair but all the furniture and gaming systems are mine. I paid for them. So, I take the those with me?

[Opinion Owner]

You take your stuff and you get out.

[Luckycharms12]

Whoever can't afford it

[horndog112]

You leave. Take what’s yours and bounce