He moved in to live with me after dating for half a year. He didn’t use me, he makes more money than me and he’s 32. All was well but I noticed the last few months he’s been acting more distant, we aren’t intimate, he blamed it on work. Recently he told me he wants to move out at the end of this month just because he needs his space back but told me he isn’t breaking up with me, that maybe it would be good for us. I said ok.
then I came across messages on his phone where he was talking to a girl he dated off and on before he and I met. I won’t say the entire convo but it seems like they’ve been in contact the last few months and both have said they missed each other and think of each other often. His recent message he told her he’s moving out and our relationship is about to end, that it’s sad but he said it has to happen.
Is he stringing her along, or is he really ending things with me? Why wouldn’t he just end things with me?
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could be playing you both to be honest. from what you said seeing his messages its more probable then not unless he is lying to her as well basically moving out but keeping you on the back burner just in case
Just in case it doesn’t work out with her?
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Mentally he already has ended things with you. He just doesn't want you to destroy all his stuff before he moves it out, and is hoping you can still be friends.
I am tempted to… I’m so hurt, I was really feeling in love with him:(
Don't, then he'll just take you to court and you'll be more f'ed. There's literally 8 billion people in the world. You'll find someone else.
Sounds like a player. Wants his ice cream and cake
He’s weird because he isn’t a player type, this is a side to him I’ve never seen or could imagine
Good luck on that guy