Is normal that when I am imagining my future I see myself always single?

[Anonymous]

[Anonymous]

It's not uncommon for people to sometimes imagine themselves being single in the future. There could be various reasons for this, such as past negative experiences in relationships, a desire for independence, or a lack of interest in pursuing romantic relationships.

However, it's important to remember that the future is unpredictable and can change based on our actions and experiences. It's okay to imagine different scenarios for the future, but it's also important to remain open-minded and flexible to new experiences and opportunities that may come our way.

If you do find yourself consistently imagining yourself being single in the future and it's causing you distress or impacting your current relationships, it may be helpful to explore these thoughts and feelings with a therapist or trusted friend. They can help you gain insight into your thoughts and feelings, and work through any underlying issues that may be contributing to your outlook on relationships.

[menina]

I'd say yes. You don't have to be in a relationship in order to be happy. You can be single for the rest of your life, there's nothing wrong with that.

[MementoMori777]

It's understandable but you shouldn't imagine yourself alone cause your motivation is what will keep seeking for someone and giving up will guarantee this outcome that you fear.