If you HAD to choose, which of these two things do you view as more meangingful for you in are relationship?

[Still-alive]

No You can't choose both in this question sorry :P

My partner unexpectedly does something for me like pumping gas for my car or doing the laundry.

My partner and I physically touch.

[MementoMori777]

Physical touch and no I'm not just talking about sex but personally I can live my life without her having to do me favors, not like I wouldn't appreciate them but in reality I'd rather have the physical touch so I can hug her and hold her if she is feeling down, hold her hand, and let's not begin to speak of having to defend her, if I have to carry her or move her out the way, personally I think physical touch is the best choice here.

[Sparkie460]

Everything my wife does for me means a lot to me. I appreciate her every day.

[Still-alive]

but if you had to go without one of these two things from your partner which would you rather it be? might be a better question.

[Sparkie460]

Probably just a simple hug or kiss

[Whatthefluff]

I’m going with physical touch. I don’t touch anyone on a daily basis besides my SO

[Rosexøxø]

Physical contact for sure. That’s what it comes down to.

*Meaningful contact

[Rosexøxø]

Voted touch for my partner and I

[Genie23]

Cuddles. I would be unhappy without getting daily dose of cuddles, lol.

[petitedollbabee]

Physical touch is my main love language, rather than acts of service.

[TacosRAwesome]

I'm going with physical touch because that's what I miss more now that I'm single.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My partner doing housework for me.

[Still-alive]

You don’t like physical touch as much?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I do. My ex was the one doing the housework for me and treated me like a princess and I was feeling so happy and grateful that I was very physically affectionate to him afterwards, I loved sitting on his lap, I think I loved it so much sometimes I even did that when he was working 🤣 He often joked that he was my human chair, I just liked sitting on his lap, putting my head on his shoulders, chest, everywhere, holding him and embracing him in my breast, It felt like his body was all mine and I “exploited” it in any way I wished. When we watched movies, he was sitting on my feet to make them warm 🤭 When we both slept, I slept next to his penis, cause I liked holding it in my sleep. I think I was a bit crazy haha but I felt very happy and so did he. So, I need touch a lot, but what I found the most meaningful was him doing things for me that he knew I hated doing - housework.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Holding his hands when walking, kissing his eyes and lips of course. Of course, I loved touching him. That was my favorite thing to do.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

If he fell asleep on the opposite ends of the couch when watching movies, I loved putting my feet on his crotch. He used to find all of this cute and comforting and I found like even if I was watching a movie and he was asleep I was still connected to his body.

[valentina4eva]

physical touch👉🏻👈🏻

[EmmaMary]

Definitely the physical touch.

[itsalyssaagain]

Meh…. both.

[Still-alive]

but if you had to go without one of these two things from your partner which would you rather it be?

[itsalyssaagain]

I love physical touch it’s my love language. But the first one is thoughtful. It shows they really love you. Anyone can touch you. But not anyone will think to take care of you like that unless they really do care.

[Still-alive]

Well if physical touch is your ‘love language’ id say thats the more important one for you. Would you agree?

Not that the other thing isn’t important, but it makes me think if you dont get that physical touch its more of a deal breaker than not getting the other thing.

What do you think?

[itsalyssaagain]

Yes that’s true

[belle_kai]

Quality time and words of affirmations