Please help, I need solutions?

[iamzohaib]

So i live in pakistan and I’m gonna leave for my masters this year in September hopefully to london, i’ve been in love with this girl and she loves me too, she is desperately asking me to stay in pakistan but cos of my career i want to go to study in london and hopefully settle there, but she doesn’t want to settle anywhere other than pakistan. So I’m stuck ỉn between what should i do, if a go there we will fall apart and if I don’t my career would be pretty much limited

[OlderAndWiser]

If you stay in Pakistan, you will blame her for your career being limited and the relationship will be strained.

If you go to London, you will lose the relationship but have your career.

So, you've got got be realistic with yourself about whether you can sacrifice your career and not resent her for being the cause.

[Avicenna]

You have more options in life with a good education. She can wait for you.

[itsalyssaagain]

Pursue your dreams. If she loves you she should support you.

[lightbulb27]

your relationship should not fall apart if you go to london. it should have new life as she visits you, etc..

if she cannot do that, if it's not temporary, then you have to make choice between career and woman. Not an easy choice...

[Jamie05rhs]

Follow your dreams. Don't hold yourself back for any woman.

[Jamie05rhs]

Don't dump her, though. Let her decide.

[shades777]

Tell her to go with you