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Me and my boyfriend have been together for two years now. he has always been very attentive to my needs and has done a great job at being open with me. up until the last few months. we are currently long distance and unfortunately have been long distance for a lot of our relationship. I try ny best to have engaging conversations and to express my excitement to talk to him everyday. i ask questions and joke a lot with him. our 2 year anniversary recently just passed and this year he forgot about it. i was pretty hurt by it but he apologized profusely. but thats all he did was apologize. usually we'd send each other gifts or make an appreciation post at the very least but i didn't even get that. i looked back at our 1 year anniversary and talked to him about how he seemed so much more excited. he told me he finds it harder to get excited now and that he doesn't get excited for anything really. i want to figure out some advice to get him to be excited or something i can do or say to get him more excited. i understand long distance can be difficult and sometimes can get bland. but i am also concerned about his mental well-being. i know he cares but how do i get him to show it?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

So long distance sucks sometimes.

You can have great conversations but when you love someone you want that touch that bond. And you need to have those conversations to. He needs to feel your energy and become one with it

Physical touch is a very beautiful thing
Energy touch is even better sometimes
Can you feel each other's energy.

If you can then you can have a conversation and the words you use. Will make you both feel as if your right there with each other in that moment.

Everybody that he reads of your makes him feel something. As his should do the same with you if you understand energy. vibration or you own frequencies there are ways you can become one in any givin moment. And it becomes a very beautiful thing

Ask105 · Accepted Answer

Dude probably wants a hug irl , I don't know you both seem on track Honestly us men dont remember the day or date we met a woman some do most don’t makes sense because its almost like having your best friend not getting you a gift or like how could you forget my bday but long distance really just lacks the whole other half of a relationship unfortunately without some irl moments in the years someone not gonna feel the same just my observation

SueShe · Accepted Answer

Unfortunately, long distance relationships seldom work out and I am actually surprised it lasted that long.

Mainly men will start to be cheating emotionally on their girlfriends when being separated for more than just a few days. By emotional cheating, I mean that they will start to watch deviant and lewd movies and clips and to manipulate their bodies to induce those spasms and muscular contractions. They will obviously think of any other girl but the girlfriend when doing that.

The fact that he finds nothing interesting to say leads me to believe that he has taken this relationship a step further and that he is slowly moving away.

Time to have a serious conversation or even surprise him where he lives and see how he reacts.

Nikki1989 · Accepted Answer

You can't force him to be excited or seek help, but you can be a supportive partner who encourages him to do so. Your job is to be there for him, but not to fix him. Men are experts at digging a hole for themselves, but they are usually hopeless at fixing the situation.