What makes you shed tears? How do you cry?

Question

I'm mostly silent or sob because the man I love is not in love with me.

Rosexøxø · Accepted Answer

Oh my gawsh- for real? Lol

This is ME!

This question has been waiting for me lol (jk).

I cry at agony, and agonizing concepts. I cry because of seemingly doomed things.
I cry when pure things are destroyed/ pure hearts are mistreated to the point they cry.
I cry when the young cry because they are helpless or hopeless- even if they are kind to everybody.
I cry when *Great Loyalty* gets put on display. (movies/ testimonials/news stories).
I cry when people overcome by defying the odds.
I cry when People are told definite/seemingly definite, despairing news: they would never be something or their pet has died.
I cry when people lose something they valued very very much and must learn to adapt in lifestyle and find new joys to shelter their wounds. (loss of a family member/ loss of a final game- of the last season- before retiring, or loss of a game with the people you'd see for the last time).
I cry when people receive news they will die early or never "lead a normal life."
I cry when the helpless are told to be quiet/ silenced/ and unable to be expressive and joyful.
I cry when long relationships end or fade because of misunderstandings: friendships/relatives/ intimate-companion relationships.
I cry when people never get to see the beauty of certain things because of some barrier, and they know that. Never live to see 280. Never see Harvard. ( A spaceship can only carry one of the members back to Earth, so they'd die in space).
I cry when things are lost. A child loses their family. A child loses their pet. A child loses their favorite toy.

I cried a lot when people were forgotten. ( I won't explain).

God, my heart is starting to go into override right now lol... this post... whew! XD

I haven't cried in a long time. Once I was just a tad scared, believing I lost touch with that, so I was grateful when I had.

I used to 'hyperventilate cry,' as a young girl. My mom had to help me I guess, otherwise, my heart would burst lol

God Bless her sweet angelic voice <3 and her loving arms which never failed me. (Literally, as when I'd cuddle with her, I'd wrap her arm around me like a seatbelt (around my neck lmfao) XD I was ready to go).

Once I cried through the entire credits of the film Togo. After that last scene... It stuck with me (well done to the crew and cast).

I've silently cried many, many times.

A while back, I cried while singing a song I improved, due to the realization of the words, and it was silently dedicated to my mom. <3

Like I said. I haven't cried in a good while. Teary-eyed, but no cries.

I cry whenever I receive disheartening realizations, and realize they'd only change if action was taken.

A final thing, I'll share. I once tied a glass bottle, the width of my pinky, and the length of a medium-sized paper clip, to some brown, shiny thread/ribbon. I wore it around my neck ( around the time when I believed in god), to remind me (since it rested on my heart), of the scripture where it says 'he collects all our tears.'

Every single one...

so I felt comforted in knowing that, and believing somehow, someone saw my tears, and knew the weight of what they meant, even if no one saw me cry...

I don't believe in God, but I still have that bottle.. I had made it for us. (He was my best friend).

That's all! Lovely question :]

JustMeL120 · Accepted Answer

If a guy says he isn't in love with you before dating you he is a massive dick. Many guy date girls they don't love at first them start loving them. If he hasn't given you a chance and just said that out of the blue. Fuck him!!! You should be happy you dodged a bullet.

Leapfrog00 · Accepted Answer

I stay silent, secretly wanting my voice to be heard. When I should shed tears, I don't. This past year has been nothing but disaster. One disaster after another. Eventually, you become an expert at hiding your emotions. There's no one around to listen anyway. If there were, would anyone really care?

The questions will never have answers. How much can a person lose before they're considered a loser? A small amount? A large amount? Somewhere in between?

When you start losing track of the days, you soon realize you lost a reason to care. What once mattered is a distant memory. A memory not forgotten but buried.

Our souls are but lonely souls, traveling down a road of nothingness. A road with no meaning. No end. And the beginning abandoned us long ago.

What I once called home, I can never go back. The dark welcomed me with open arms, giving me a its own version of home. The place I could never call home. Once I had a life. A small family. A few friends. Now taken away, never to be returned.

Sorrow found me, love abandoned me, the cold hands of nothingness stayed with me. A person can work their whole life, only to have all that they worked for taken away. Everything I worked for from everything I loved, gone in a single heartbeat. Gone forever, only to return in a dream. A dream that will never come true.

It's said if you love something set it free and if it comes back, it's yours. If it was never yours in the first place, how can it come back? We are but flowers in a garden. The winter comes. We freeze. We wither. We die.

My tears once made it onto the paper a love poem I wrote for a friend. A love that would never belong to me. I once believed love was the worst you could lose. Now, I realize the worst you could lose is everything that has ever mattered to you.

Will I ever recover? Will I ever feel again? Do I deserve to recover? Do I deserve to ever feel again? I am not worthy of love. I am only worthy of the loneliness that welcomed me with no questions.

My tears will never be heard. . .

----This is probably the writer in me coming out, but this is how I feel! lol. Yeah, I don't think anyone will ever understand me. ::Sighs::

nolabels · Accepted Answer

Physical pain and emotional joy are the main reasons I cry these days.

It occurs frequently.

Both types are cathartic.

Crying due to physical pain is unfortunately not under my control.

Crying due to emotional joy, though, is very easily evoked by playing certain songs or by handling treasured mementos that once belonged to long-passed loved ones.

Crying while in physical pain is usually combined with pleas to whomever can hear me for some sort of assistance, with the hoped-for assistance never forthcoming.

Crying from emotional joy results in an extremely wet face and an inability to speak in any other voice than a throaty croaking sound.

I love me a good cry.

MementoMori777 · Answer

Unfortunately it's not easy for me to shed tears but cheer up, the person meant to be with you is already with you in the future, you just haven't got to the point in your life yet, it's most likely not who you expect but when you find them, you'll be happy, I trust God, you should also trust Allah. 🙏💯

richardcory · Answer

Loss makes me cry - tears drip from my eyes, but no other outward sign. I cried when I had to have my cat killed because it had incurable cancer. I died when the only adult who was good to me as a child died - also cancer. But I cry at other loss - when I'm reminded of the loss of my dreams for what the world should be like when I was young.

SunnyRS · Answer

I try not to cry, I might shed a tear or so but I have tried not to cry.
Mostly what makes me shed a tear is when I miss my family cause I can't see them anymore.
I am sorry about your situation hope you find someone who loves you as much as you love him.

NathanDavis · Answer

silent tears... that one time I hit my pinky toe on the big ass dining table that weighs as much as a big tree

Berethor · Answer

Men don't cry trope, I prefer to be stoic. Silent crying, I cried last when I had pretty big crisis.

peedy · Answer

I dont
Real men dont have that luxury, and I dont shit what modern society says about its ok for mem to cr, y we don't because everyone looks to use to hold everything together when they are falling about

Billlewis · Answer

If someone beats me hard enough, they'll be able to reduce me to tears.

Wild_princess · Answer

I don't cry usually unless i have fight with someone super close to me like my mum or my bff. otherwise i don't break down easily

Curious_teen07 · Answer

Sobbing or hyperventilate crying. Caused by many things...

Arik_jade · Answer

When I loose someone... I go to some lonely place and I used to cry a loud, let tears come out... it relieves your depression when u cry and let tears out... don't resist yourself from crying.

sheenagwapa · Answer

i'm 💯 certain that i'm not the one who will cry last 😂... the perks of beinh a prophetess

Tomisworthless · Answer

Probably silent

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