Can guys cheat on their extremely beautiful girlfriend or wife?

Question

I thought that men get blinded by beauty. And can never leave a beautiful woman.

MrOracle · Accepted Answer

"I thought that men get blinded by beauty. And can never leave a beautiful woman."

Not sure where you got this idea, but it is absolutely, completely, 100% wrong. I recommend you erase all notions of this concept from your brain.

Men are instinctually programmed to spread their seed - to have sex with as many different women as possible - because this increases genetic diversity (healthier for the gene pool) and makes it far more likely that if there's a disease/pandemic, or if some of his children have genetic problems, that others will survive. Men have to be emotionally mature and be willing to make sacrifices in order to suppress this very strong instinct.

With that in mind, nearly all women are only interested in the top 10% of men (as rated by women) - the most attractive men. But as a result, such men have lived their entire adult lives being chased by endless numbers of women, and so these men have never had any need to make such a sacrifice - they feel perfectly entitled to sleep with as many women as they want - even if they're in a relationship (though they rarely bother to get into one). Cheating for them is no big deal at all - it's just how they live, and they have no guilt or shame or hesitation about doing it, because for them, women are extremely easy to replace, and rarely if ever respected. Ironic, then, that these are the men that all the women want to be with.

Look at Tiger Woods - he was married to a Swedish model - but he also literally had bus-loads of young women following him from event to event and finding ways to sneak into his hotels and hotel rooms. He didn't have to search for women to cheat with - they literally stalked him and threw themselves at him. The fact that he had an amazingly beautiful woman at home was irrelevant - he had an opportunity to sleep with a DIFFERENT woman (lots of them, actually), and he took that opportunity because he could. And of course, all of these women knew full well that he was married, but that didn't stop them from sleeping with him either. Anyway, if you're dealing with a man that most women find attractive, you should expect such a man to cheat on you, because he can.

Growing up, I was good friends with a guy who was a lead-singer in a band, and they got on MTV and opened for a bunch of major music acts. He wasn't really famous nationally, despite touring nationally, but he was VERY famous locally/regionally. And between the ages of 12-25, he estimates that he slept with at least 1500 women - and he NEVER chased a girl, and never took a girl out on a date. These girls chased him, and threw themselves at him. He got his first ever girlfriend (who is now his wife) at age 31, and he came to me for advice, as, like I said, he'd never been on a date and never dealt with a woman in a serious way, and really had no idea what to do at all. I ended up providing some amateur counselling to both of them. The point of all of this is that I've seen exactly how it works for attractive men, and it's a whole different world. But since most women choose ONLY to deal with such men, they think that all men act like these top 10% men do (they do not), and they assume that most men have the opportunities with women that these men do (and they definitely do not).

If you deal with top men, you will be cheated on or pumped-and-dumped, because they can.

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

This guy  Cheated on this girl With this prostitute

Apple1996 · Answer

A guy would be more likely to cheat on a beautiful 10/10 because he's probably only values women on their looks and not anything more

Avicenna · Answer

I can definitely see that happening. Cheating is primarily about thrill seeking rather than anything logical.

ManOnFire · Answer

A  lot  of men have cheated on their beautiful girlfriends/wives, leaving those women to wonder why, was she not attractive enough, etc. Even I used to wonder too but I know why now: I have personally known some men who had very attractive women in their lives, yet cheated on her with an ugly or overweight whore simply because she could deepthroat, let him do anal sex with her, or just do all kinds of things with him in bed that he felt like his girlfriend/wife wasn't providing. Sometimes the guys will cheat on their beautiful girlfriend/wife with a less attractive woman simply because he knows she's a whore and he's turned on by that and wants a piece. This actually is really common, especially in the workplace. If a man knows a girl or woman is the type to sleep around, or he heard that she sucked off some guy in his orbit, the dude will be turned on by it and will try to see if he can get it from her too. Seen it a lot. I think it's completely wrong for men to cheat and definitely for the reasons I just gave you, but I am saying that those are unfortunately the reasons if his girlfriend/wife is already attractive.

Babygirl_S · Answer

I have read it somewhere that a man loses interest in a woman once he has had sex with her no matter how beautiful. They have this innate desire to spread their genes to as many women as possible. It takes a lot of maturity to resist that. At least that's what I've found through my research. So it isn't wise to have sex too early in a relationship. If he has chased a woman and worked hard to take her to bed then he'll cherish the reward. That is why I wouldn't chase a man as they don't value such women no matter how beautiful.

RavVid · Answer

Se might be a beautiful bitch. Is she beautiful on the inside too? And has an inner sensuality?

Extremely beautiful women get away with stuff because of their beauty and so don't have the feminine virtues of being loving caring and nice. Not always true but I have only know two nice very beautiful girls.

Add to that an extremely beautiful girl might think she doesn't need to do anything sexual but be beautiful. She might think you should be happy with twice a week.

An OK looking girl might have a very good character and enjoy being provocatively arousing to you and give it to you as many times a week as you are capable of!

Extreme beauty is just one side of the package we hope for. I for one reverse discriminate against extreme beauty.

midnightmoon05 · Answer

Sure they can. Men are not as shallow as you think.

Most healthy men look for a good hearted woman to have a family.

I have a co worker who is very good looking... but inside... uhhhggg... the husband kept telling her he is going to divorce her if she continues to be a bitch and not a good mom to their daughter. He refused to have another child with her.

so as you can see.. good man wants a good woman... shallow men will use a pretty woman (outside) and leave her if that's all she has.

Screenwriter · Answer

Guys cheat on homely women, stupid women, smart women, gorgeous women, young women, older women, short women, tall women. Men simply CHEAT ON WOMEN. Has nothing to do with looks, quality, how rich or poor the woman is, how smart or dumb, young or old, married or single.

It's all about the man in question. He is the only reason for the cheating. It has nothing to do with how the woman treats or mistreats him. Men who cheat have problems with fidelity/loyalty for some emotional, psychological reasons.

Gentleman900 · Answer

The way you ask this is letting me know that you think that the only way a man can't cheat is if he has a beautiful woman, which is false! Look at Jay-Z and Beyonce, come on. Men cheat if they want. A woman doesn't make a man cheat and vice versa! I always preach-Please, Please stop listening to these podcasts on "How to keep a man" It's not going to work. The only way you can keep a man is if he wants to be maintained. Insecure women have made so many lists of how to have a "cheat-proofed" relationship and it's honestly silly.

MementoMori777 · Answer

It's possible if there's another beautiful woman involved, which I've noticed that usually when other women see that a beautiful woman wants a guy, it makes em want him too, they would chase after him as well and if the dude falls into temptation, then he does.

Billlewis · Answer

If you want proof that guys will cheat on their wife or girlfriend even if she's gorgeous, just take a look at Michael Jordan's first wife, Juanita. She's one of the most beautiful women I've ever seen, but he cheated on/left her for Karla Knafel? Are you kidding me? Unbelievable...

ohsheeT · Answer

We all know the men can be stupid at times same with women but a man can have everything he's ever wanted and be totally happy never cheated day in his life never do anything wrong because he knows who he is but there are men that can have exactly all the same thing and still have to cheat and still lie about it the same with women it's sad but it's true

exitseven · Answer

I met a guy who had a really pretty wife. He told me he had a girlfriend and wanted me to meet her. She really was just average looking and she was not very nice either. I didn't know what to think.

Pink0123 · Answer

Guys make mistakes because they are weak to temptation. I've know of a lot of beautiful famous women who have been cheated on. It's a matter of how the man was raised, and his morals. But at the end of the day it's about will power to do the right thing. I've noticed after being together for so long 8-10+ years things change couples grow apart too. And rather than end the relationship someone cheats.

Berethor · Answer

If she don't put out then sure, and some men are greedy, but yea men tend to be very visual.

Anonymous · Answer

Sure, I would say it definitely happens. Just because a woman is extremely beautiful doesn't mean she is satisfying her man's needs. Beauty is only important in initial attraction and won't sustain a relationship long term.

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

"Show me a beautiful woman and I'll show you a guy that's tired of her shit." Forgot who said that. If she's high maintenance absolutely.

Hearts4u · Answer

Most definitely. I’ve seen guys cheat on a 10 for a 4. Beautiful women aren’t an exception for getting cheated on.

Anonymous · Answer

being beautiful doesn't automatically make you immune to cheating, beautiful women can still do all the stuff that make average and ugly women get cheated on.

Its a behavioral thing not a beauty thing when it comes to cheating.

if you say hey im not going to sleep with him then he goes welp this dick ain't gonna suck itself so he cheats, he still loves you but he's got needs.

richardcory · Answer

Sure. A beautiful partner may still not meet whatever it is that the other person thinks is driving them to cheat

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I'd never cheat, but I'd also never be with a boring woman, even if she's gorgeous, so no beauty does not blind men. I prefer a woman whos hot AND mentally interesting.

ericclayton · Answer

People cheat because of selfish desires and wanting "more." Also, let's not kid ourselves into thinking this is an exclusively male trait.

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Yes. No matter what humans in their sinful state cannot be satisfied. It's all about opportunity and if it presents itself people commit adultery.

noohair · Answer

Men have a caveman part of the brain that drives the need to spread their genetics. And beauty is not everything if the person has a rotten personality.

DermalPunch · Answer

Story as old as time. Cheaters usually downgrade because they are stupid.

slatyb · Answer

Of course Hugh Grant cheated on Elizabeth Hurley.

Yannishka · Answer

Maybe if they're crazy. Bad men get blinded by beauty. That's how they cheat

Jersey2 · Answer

Arnold Schwarzenegger, Hugh Grant (he must be nuts!) and more. Does that answer the question? Just google them if you don’t know n

VikingWarLord · Answer

Read the book "SEX AT DAWN" by Cacilda Jetha and Christopher Ryan You won't even need to ask this question ever again

Unit1 · Answer

Everything is possible. Except for me getting a girlfriend 😁

Anonymous · Answer

People who truly love each other don't cheat.

BrookeS · Answer

They do cheat but if they do and you find out, dump their ass

zagor · Answer

I guess that's why Hollywood marriages are always so faithful and long-lasting...

OddBeMe · Answer

Cheating isn’t about beauty or sexuality really. It’s like SA or killing, it’s about power, the excitement, whatever…

Anonymous · Answer

Are you really so naïve as to believe a woman's beauty is all it takes to keep a man happy?

mommymommymommy · Answer

Just look at adam fucktard levine. Cheated on a fucking VS model

Anonymous · Answer

a lot of beautiful women are incredibly ugly people when you get to know them. No amount of physical beauty eclipses a sh**ty personality.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, if I married a flat wife and I met a curvy woman I might Cheat

comekitty · Answer

Oh, yes - they can

Jazzy54 · Answer

Yup. There are multiple reasons why men cheat.

juene · Answer

Yes, guys/girls will cheat if they want to.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

If she is a cunt, sure.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

He can if he has no morals.

Anonymous · Answer

No they can’t.

Pterodon · Answer

Yes they can and have

mobiusforniner · Answer

Yes.

nerdalert3000 · Answer

Yea, at the moment of temptation and lust.

riverrat3 · Answer

Beauty is only skin deep

nudeNhorny · Answer

it's possible

Wise4myage · Answer

Yes it happens.

EVERYONEDIED · Answer

everyone cheats

In_Trance · Answer

yeah

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously

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