How to let my wife know I love her?

[Koolguyice]

I been away in investigations as I was a criminal investigator. I come home to find that my wife don’t think I love her. I had a couple of fake undercover relationships with people I had to put away. She heard in the streets that I was in love with this woman who I worked to put away. I don't know what to do. We agreed to have an open marriage because with me being gone nearly 90% of the time it wasn’t fair that she had to be home by herself. She even moved into a separate apartment.

[Emelina]

Your marriage is over, and you need to accept that and respect her. Trying to talk to her, and she's already made up her mind in believing others about you being in love with the other woman, she wouldn't believe you even if you are telling the truth... reality is this relationship for her isn't for her anymore, she's living a double life here, and you being gone all of the time and not home thats not a marriage, that's like having a side woman whenever you want to come home to and enjoy one or two kights then out you go again at your job. Not fair, and I dont blame her for moving out, that's telling you she is pretty much done in the marriage. So let her go, and you concentrate on your full plus jobs, as you have zero time for any relationship with any woman as long as you have this major job that you dedicated yourself into and not your marriage. Hope for the best for you and your wife.

[Emelina]

Thanks for the SO... 🙂

[On_cloud_wine]

That’s like saying “I had to do the drugs in order to catch the bad guy”

[OddBeMe]

Actions speak louder. The woman species values men cleaning, making an effort in their wardrobe, etc…

[Avicenna]

I don't think there's anything you can do at this point of she has moved out.

[Koolguyice]

She think I love the women in my past and not her

[Avicenna]

She's definitely not going to believe you, especially with an open marriage

[Nikki1989]

You can't do anything more. You did the right thing, deciding on an open-marriage.

[Koolguyice]

She didn’t cheat it was only me

[najekim]

You may want to consider a marriage therapist.

[dude6006ies]

Respect for your sacrifice bro. Keeping the rest of us safe. Your wife should show respect as well. You are being way too kind.

[Spade_01]

Open marriage... smh

[Iron_Man]

Prove it to her

[Koolguyice]

I tried to talk with her but she still thinks I don’t love her and she’s not beautiful enough for me

[Iron_Man]

Well, you said it yourself shame on that

[shades777]

by showing her