Please help, what should I do when my girlfriend does not follow my restrictions?

[Anonymous]

So i live in pakistan, night life here is not safe, and generally girls going out (after 11pm) with friends is not considered good, i’ve restricted my girlfriend not to go out after that or even if you go out with friends come back before 11pm but she never comes on time. We’ve had few fights, at the moment we had a fight too I don't know what to do suggestion please. I don't know if that is a lot to ask for? I need a solution

[lightbulb27]

why is it not safe in Pakistan? It's a Muslim country, it should be a wonderful place to live. I can walk down my streets any time and not be threatened.

obviously... she does not agree, nor does she respect your authority. So you should talk to her about what she does think, why this is so. In essence, she is worrying you about her security, and she doesn't care. Why she is going out without you... makes no sense either.

After that, figure out a solution. For example, have her call you when she is ready to leave.

In my view though... this relationship... not going to work unless she has a good reason. A man disrespected... is not going to work.

[razelove]

That isn't too much to ask for in America. If you're in an exclusive relationship, and you don't want your partner to go clubbing, basically looking for other partners, that is reasonable.
If you're with someone unreasonable, find someone else.

[ProfileUnknownWoman]

If you had found a girlfriend coming home before 11 am then.

[Asker]

I don't know what’s that suppose to mean😅

[ProfileUnknownWoman]

The translation writes according to his head

[Bricealan]

She is an adult, and she has been warned... what more can you do? You can't lock her up... all you can do is what you have done. If something happens to her, she is responsible for that... not you.

[htmndg183]

Girlfriend hai ya biwi?

[Asker]

Fiance

[htmndg183]

Sahi. Beshak chat pe baat karlein. Shayad koi help ho jaaiye aapki.

[slatyb]

Easy. Stop worrying about it.

[exitseven]

She is your girlfriend, not your slave.

[Jay3344]

Is she close to 11 when she comes back?