How would you feel if you’re whole family know you’re new girlfriend or boyfriend cheated on you?

[Anonymous]

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You and your family all find out the same day from the person you’re partner cheated on you with.

[OlderAndWiser]

If we all learned at the same time, I would be pissed at whoever told my family, as my mother is 92 years old and does not need to hear any of that shit! Obviously, I couldn't have done anything ealier. I would simply say to my family, "Excuse me, but there is some distressing business to which I must attend," and then I would go break up with the bitch.

[Asker]

Shit

[Spade_01]

How can one feel more betrayed? It's like everyone who mattered to the person betrayed them.

[Anonymous]

If they new about it but never told me, and I found out about it much later through other means, I would be really upset that they didn’t tell me sooner.

[Asker]

I just told his family and him that I’ve been sleeping with his girlfriend behind his back

[Opinion Owner]

So you’ve knowingly wrecked his relationship. I hope he dumps you as a friend and loses his girlfriend, and moves on and finds better friends.

[Opinion Owner]

Aswell as announced it to his family. Wow. You’re awful.

[Asker]

I wasn’t his friend am his girlfriend ex boyfriend she was cheating on him with me. I got sick of being the side guy so sent him videos&photod and screen shots of everything even a marriage certificate we got but didn’t get married was dated 2 weeks ago

[Asker]

But yea me telling all of his phone was cruel I didn’t send them photos or anything only s copy of the marriage license and screenshots of text messages

[Opinion Owner]

Oh I see. Sorry for assuming that you are his friend. It’s still horrible to knowingly ruin his relationship though. And it’s horrible for his girlfriend to do this to him.

[Asker]

It is but she still did it the first time we were drunk , 2nd time was a hand job she wasn’t drinking the rest was just physical touching ass grabbed and cudding .. marriage license was 2 weeks ago she just blocked me today after I told him everything. Unsure if he’s staying with her or not since they just got back from a vacation

[Asker]

A 4 day vacation and she spent 4 days with him before that.

[Opinion Owner]

He’d be smart not to stay with her if she’s like that.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

The only person to blame in an affair is the cheater. Not the person they cheated with. He's not homewrecking pos, he's a good guy. Most guys would just keep fucking her and probably shit talk her boyfriend too

[WanderingLoveWizard]

SHE ruined their relationship. End of story

[Asker]

That’s assume weather or not they broke up or not all I did was cause problems in the relationship wanderinglove wizward. He may not care we had sex two weeks ago or about the marriage certificate or her cheating the first month she dated him

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You didn't do shit. She did that. It's not your relationship to look out for and protect. It's hers!
It's respectable that you're taking responsibility, but it's like saying you caused a rear ender because you were stopped at a light.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

You're not responsible for their relationship, and it's almost a little self righteous to think that you are. But you do you bud

[Asker]

OO no wanderlove I don’t care if he’s hurt or not or if she hurts I want him to dump her so she understands how I felt and learns she can’t do shit like that to people.

[Ms_Facesitter]

The same way as them. We could gossip about the ex together.

[Nikki1989]

It's fine. People should learn to mind their own business anyway.

[KrakenAttackin]

That is humiliating.

[Asker]

Yea it is poor guy