Boyfriend had phimosis so we could not have sex in the beginning of our relationship. Now that he's healed it still has not happened. Should I worry?

[Anonymous]

We have a great emotional connection but when it comes to sexual connection we lack it. And this is because in the beginning of our relationship, when things should have been happening, they didn't because of the surgery. I just think it is something that can be worked on. He is a virgin so it would be his first time and I can see that it scares him. I can't help but feel insecure in the relationship. I am finding it hard to find security and I wish things would have started differently.

[8UniquelyBoring8]

I understand that you are feeling insecure in your relationship due to the lack of sexual connection and the circumstances that had prevented it in the past. It's normal to feel that way, but it's important to communicate with your partner openly and honestly about your feelings and concerns.


It's possible that your partner may be feeling scared or nervous about initiating sexual activity or taking steps towards improving your sexual connection. It may be helpful to have a conversation about what you both feel comfortable with and what steps you can take together to work towards building a stronger sexual connection.


It's also important to remember that sexual compatibility can take time and patience to develop. It's not something that happens overnight, and it's okay to take small steps towards building a stronger connection over time.


I encourage you to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your feelings and to approach the issue as a team, working together towards building a stronger and more fulfilling relationship.

[Anonymous]

This is another reason why I would never waste my time on a virgin.

[Boysface_18]

İs your boyfriend still uncircumcised... how old is boyfriend... is your boyfriend can pull back his foreskin... or not pulling back

[Staximus]

Tell him you want to give him a blow job and get the ball rolling

[Danny_dan92]

Damn. That’s unfortunate isn’t it?

[Anonymous]

Have you asked him?