Would you give your partner/spouse a foot rub if their feet hurt after a long day at work (WITHOUT EXPECTING ANYTHING IN RETURN)?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yes I would

No I wouldn’t

[razelove]

I would if they wash them first. It's hot as hell down here in the South. Anywho I regularly rub my wife's shoulders and arms after work since she does a lot of work with pipettes and typing that leave her sore as hell.

She was also pregnant with swollen feet several times, granted if I get zero appreciation for that after a couple times I'm going to be slower to respond, then not responding to those requests.

It's fine to be stressed or hurting. It isn't fine to be taken for granted.

[JeffersonA]

Yes and I do all the time she works hard and her feet are so sore after!

It is part of loving her and she does the same back after my hard day!

more poeple need this and often healthy relationship do have it for hard working lovers.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

This here!

[JeffersonA]

This here what?
Lol why did it go bold?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Meant good answer and I agree 100

[JeffersonA]

Thanks glad you agree and wish more couples were selfless at times.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

They sure need to be if they want a happy healthy relationship

[midnightmoon05]

Certainly…we give each other massages often. (Feet, head, back… when driving, I naturally pull his hand and rub it). We also go to professional once a month.
it’s part of our relationship.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

That’s great!

[Apple1996]

Nah feet give me the ick. I will massage everywhere else too tho

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I’m not a foot lover either but if I could relieve their pain I would

[AviatorTom]

I do it all the time... nothing expected... and nothing received.

[coachTanthony]

Of course I am not a monster ha

[marrk]

My boyfriend and I went to a wedding and I came back to his apartment, I took a shower, and passingly told him my feet hurt. He rubbed them and nothing else occurred. (We’re abstinent).
I also rub his head or back whenever the mood strikes.

[Lliam]

Absolutely. I massage my wife's legs and feet sometimes after she has had a long day at the salon. Or her back and shoulders.
Now, if I massage her shoulders and boobs, I might need something from her in return. 😆

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

We were talking about feet not boobs🤣

[Lliam]

You're right. Sorry. I got a little of topic. LOL

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

😂😂

[Billlewis]

I give just about anyone a foot massage who wants one, including several women's boyfriends from time to time.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I’ll be right there😁😂

[Sanser]

Of course! A partner is there because you love him/her why would you not do that? Its like the definition of love... Give anything not expecting nothing in return!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Exactly!!

[Paul09]

No, because I hate feet. Anything but the feet!

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I’m not a foot lover either but if I could relieve their pain I would

[Paul09]

Id have to really like her and , she would have the have niceish feet.. maybe then I'd go through with it lol

[ohsheeT]

In any relationship one of the greater moments are spontaneous anything to benefit your partner to set her down and start massaging her feet to take her into the bathroom and have a hot warm bubble bath waiting for her and then have a big ocean sponge and tell her just to lay back and do everything I just have dinner cooked wash your car it doesn't matter what it is that's what relationships are all about is give and take without anything in return just to say hey love you thank for all you do

[ariadneR]

Oh absolutely. He works so hard, and I legitimately feel that I don't do enough for him. He tells me otherwise, but I still have that nagging at the back of my head

[Anonymous]

Yes, I do rub her feet pretty often without needing anything in return. I think doing things like that to make her more comfortable are an important part of a relationship.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I agree

[loveslongnails]

I never expect anything in return when I do something nice for the woman I love. That's ridiculous.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Good to hear

[Massageman]

Yes, I would. I'd probably use a scented alcohol spray first, though.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

lol 😂

[Anonymous]

Sure if any of their body parts are hurting I’d be happy to make it feel better.

if your man hurt his balls playing sports, would you rub them to make them better?

[WhiteBoyChill]

😂😂 so true

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I’d rub em even if they weren’t sore😁🤣

[Opinion Owner]

Haha that would give me an instant hardon!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Yep. Do for me and I do for you isn't what I'm about as that doesn't come from the heart but selfish motivations.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Exactly!

[turnpost]

tit for tat mentality is garbage. Love 110% on both sides

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@turnpost exactly

[madhatters4]

never been asked and not particularly into it but sure i'd give my wife a foot massage if she asked

[ConspiracyTheorist]

If her feet hurt why not? If I'm with her then I must like her and if she a spouse then that must mean I love her and so that must mean she treating me good so absolutely.

[dynamicyandere]

I’ve done that before. A simple thank you is enough. I’m happy to treat my significant other well. I just want to know that I’m appreciated.

[Joey718]

Of course! But knowing her, I probably will get something in return 😏

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Nothing wrong with that if she offering lol

[WhitneySnow]

Sure if that’s what they wanted and they’d do it for me. That sounds kinda sweet.

[RavVid]

There is a good chance that giving a foot massage might lead me to becoming excited but initially I wouldn't have expectations.