She only said it once but does this mean she thinks I’m gay or does she wants break up? This was a few months ago. I didn’t think much of it but I got curious what she meant. To complicate things even more her ‘friend’ that’s a girl that dates multiple people of all sexes (sorry I don’t know many LGBTQIA+ genders/terms. I don’t want to offend anyone) the ‘friend’ that has ‘joked’ about liking her. It doesn’t take Sherlock to figure out she isn’t joking and my girlfriend hasn’t reacted negatively nor positively about it but seems to have avoided contact with me since the group of ‘pranks’ happened I haven’t really said anything about it yet to her but to me it seems like she likes her friends back. She hasn’t come out as bi but what she describes as people she likes (boys or girls) says that. She says just because I like girls doesn’t mean I’m LBTQIA+ (it obviously she is but won’t admit it).
Girls, What does it mean if my girlfriend says I show my feminine side?
What Girls Said
This can actually be something positive. Also how do you make the connection from: showing feminin side, to people who avoid dating feminine people?
I mean if she LIKES girls than yes she would be at least bi but that again doesn't mean she wants to break up. Bi would also mean she likes boys which you are one (I think from the blue account at least). If she now says she like the feminin side that would be close to the opposite of wanting to break up with you.
Again showing a bit of a feminin side is nothing negativ. Feminin and masculine are in generally only stereotypes that describe men and women. No one is 100% masculine or feminin and those that are or most often only, want to be, probably take it to a toxic level.
To bring context to the last part: Not showing emotions is often considered masculine for some reasons. So trying to shut oneself off and not showing any emotion at all would be a form of overly masculine that is bad in most cases.
On the other hand being caring is often considered feminin, caring for those around yourself is a good think as long as it doesn't reach levels that it gets detrimental to yourself, in which case it can be a bad thing to have.
It is a compliment. You should be happy.
no that can be very attractive