I've been in this situation a few times myself, and this is what I figured out: there are a lot of things I like about a lot of women and a few things that I love about women and a even fewer number of things I just won't live without. Several times I've been with a gal that I liked a lot of things about, but because of similar interest one of her best friends possessed the things I loved and in some cases the things I won't live without. _ Now because I am a Gentleman I often times wouldn't even try to be friends with my gal's buddies because I hate cheating and won't do it myself. This happened a couple times with sisters, like an older one that's more mature and fun or a younger sister that is sexier and more loving. My rule of Chivalry was I wouldn't let myself even be friends until my gal broke up with me. In my case every time the sister or best friend came to me and a couple times two of them came to me at once.
___ A guy would let you know he has a crush, because he doesn't know what I know; that is take your time good things come to those who wait, if it's meant to be it will happen in it's own good timing ! But neither one of you want to do your friend wrong because you will hate that about each other in the future in your degraded relationship. Wait and it could be really sweet , if you both pass the test of character now !
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means he is playing around. he MINGHT still like you, probebly not. this minght be related to you in your relationship, but probebly not.
could be you looked sad and he just wanted to cheer your up by saying that your not totally unattractive and that he even once fell for you.
if I were to tell a girll I once like them, then there is definitely some meaning to it and would want to deepen the trust level. but this guy is not me and could be.
as you presumably suspect he could secretly like you but be afriad to show it. he wants to date you but then thought you were going to get married and forced himself to move on. now that you are single again there is a grain of hope for him.
but, there is also a grain of dishonesty or some lack of trust, as his girlfriend then, was not who he really liked. worse, who knows if your who he really likes if he were to date you.
Cause he just wanted to let you know. Maybe he hopes yall can hook up eventually if he tells you whether he has a girl or not. Don't let him cause he'll just want you on the side and you deserve better than that. Or he may be leaving his girl soon and trying to get things started with you by tellin you he likes you. IDK. Wait and see what happens.
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some guys like to have a girl or 2 on the side along with their girlfriend. Just incase something goes wrong they have an easy rebound. I wouldn't take much notice of his words unless he dumps his girlfriend so he can be with you.
Another perfectly normal reason could be his girlfriend is a bit boring when it comes to flirting and he just wants a bit more affection, therefore he leaches out to other girls such as yourself.Yes. You can be attracted to multiple people at once. It's what you do with it that defines your character.
And people do sometimes, sadly, settle for someone other than the one they really want. Not all relationships end before someone finds someone better for them. The line between cheating and "finding someone else" lies mostly in how much you pursue the new relationship before ending the old one.Hes telling you now because if your like I like you too lets hook up he can drop his current girl and if you shut him down he already has a girl.
Its called causing trouble. STAY AWAY!
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