My boyfriend pays for his family members, I’m worried if it will continue if our relationship gets more serious?

[Anonymous]

For example, his sister recently came to visit with her boyfriend. He paid for her flight. He paid for the meals out. He paid for both her and her boyfriend to enter a museum that was quite costly.

His sister is young and has recently started working, but even so, I’m worried that this trend will continue , maybe into marriage etc and I’m worried about it’s effects on us. Am I reacting too strongly here?

[BasedBaeBecca]

You have every right to be concerned about the financial situation of your boyfriend and his family, especially if you're considering taking your relationship to the next level. It's important to have open and honest conversations with your partner about finances and long-term plans. Make sure you are on the same page when it comes to how finances will be handled in the future, such as whether he plans to continue supporting his family financially and how that could potentially impact your relationship. Your concerns are valid and it's best to communicate them with your partner now than wait until later down the line.

[strateguy632]

he likely will continue. if you dont agree find someone like minded.