These are long distance places so not typically near him or his usual kind of choice. He never seemed that keen to go when I mentioned them but now he’s going there with her. He’s basically kind of stealing my ideas.
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Any thoughts guys? I’m looking for genuine insight here if anyones brave enough to share some honesty.
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It is nothing personal. Not all guys are super romantic and they want to please the new girlfriend but haven't the faintest idea what she will like. They remember that their ex liked a particular place so they think, well maybe she will too and seeing as I have no idea, that's the best bet.
I feel like this may be a little more personal given his posts (I don’t want to say too much here in case he sees it). So for arguments sake, if that were the case why might it be…to hurt the ex, to make them jealous…because they want their attention because they’re still not fully over them? He did jump into a new relationship quite quickly after the breakup (if he wasn’t already intending to date her before we broke up)…
If it was intentional then he is likely manipulative, toxic and nasty. Such an act would be toxic behaviour designed to hurt/punish the other person. Speaking as a guy I think it is much more likely that he is not considering you at all. He has moved on quickly. You aren't on his mind because he wasn't super into you (a tough pill) and he is now enjoying this new experience. Either way I would advise you to move on.
It is unlikely you will get more replies as GAG is not as active as I wish it was. Pay it forward by answering some questions yourself in no opinions feed and maybe we can turn the platform around. Good luck :)
No honesty is good, if that is the case I have no issue with hearing it, it’s just knowing what the truth is.
He lead me to believe he was super into me if he wasn’t so that was manipulative and toxic either way.
He still watches all of my updates/stories and engages on occasion, he did say he wanted to be friends though. I’d expected him to disengage from them by now though in all honesty, especially if he’s happy elsewhere. I would delete him but as he wast he’s me I don’t want him to notice and then take it negatively as he lives far from me but works in my area so could get awkward.
*watches me