Assume there is no enmity between you and your ex... in fact, if you hate your exes, bets not answer the question to let it cloud your judgment 😆 Don't assume anything. I am not asking if you can find a partner for yourself... I am not saying whether you asked or offered... let's just say your ex is up for finding your next partner... will you allow it?
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. I should have said "potential partner". Because that's what I had I mind anyway... lol... NOT an automatic boyfriend... which is why in the comments I said you still had the chance to get to know the person or to accept or reject.
Would you let an ex find your new boyfriend if you broke up AMICABLY? Why or why not?
because nobody else can replace an actual genuine bond within two people, and nobody else would know better about it other than me... and the person I would be bonding with
for someone to introduce you to new people, that could make more sense... but to "find you a partner" would be an excess and the wrong approach
Lol but it's somthing personal if someone found someone for me and it went sideways there would always be a level of resentment towards that person why add that when relationships are hard already
Haha okay that's a good point. Lol I pwrsonalky wouldn't hold anything against my ex though if they chose a partner that happened to not work out for me...
It's not a big deal... you don't know a person until you know them lol... also I would decide whether I like this person or not both initially... and after I get to know them... its like arranged marraige (unlike steotypicsl arranged marriage, you can still date the person for a fre months before marraige )... because you trust your parents.. you trust your ex (with whom you left amicably).. andyou trust your friends
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that doesn't make sense to me at all...
Why?
because nobody else can replace an actual genuine bond within two people, and nobody else would know better about it other than me... and the person I would be bonding with
for someone to introduce you to new people, that could make more sense... but to "find you a partner" would be an excess and the wrong approach
Yeah... I worded that wrong lol... I should have said "potential partner".
No lol would be a silly idea
Why?
Why would I allow anyone else but myself to make that choice just seems like a bad idea
You can still make the final choice.
But why would I let them have any choice
Because you know them and they are a good person... they know you well...
My friends and parents also know me and I wouldn't let them pick a partner for me lol
You don't have to
So it's a matter of pride?
And that was my answer no because I don't see a point
Finding a partner can be hard.
Nothing to do with pride to do with me seeing it as pointless letting someone else find me a partner
Lol but it's somthing personal if someone found someone for me and it went sideways there would always be a level of resentment towards that person why add that when relationships are hard already
Haha okay that's a good point. Lol I pwrsonalky wouldn't hold anything against my ex though if they chose a partner that happened to not work out for me...
not that I ritually practice this 💀 ☠💀
I just don't see why u would let someone else make such a massive choice for you as in find a partner
It's not a big deal... you don't know a person until you know them lol... also I would decide whether I like this person or not both initially... and after I get to know them... its like arranged marraige (unlike steotypicsl arranged marriage, you can still date the person for a fre months before marraige )... because you trust your parents.. you trust your ex (with whom you left amicably).. andyou trust your friends
Stereo*
Typical*
Fair enough guess the difference is I wouldn't go with a arranged marriage so meh
I have different reasons for not going with arrange marriage lol... but that's maybe a talk for another tiem
Never entertain exes in life.
I reckon not.
Why?
I just don't see the point.
kill the benchode !!