Girls, Have you ever been aware of a guys issues from the beginning of the relationship and then try to use those against him?

[Anonymous]

Ok so I’m 31 I have only had one relationship and I’m on the spectrum I lack social skills I struggle with anxiety, ocd, ptsd, my breath isn’t always the freshest because I have some existing issues going on that I been trying to make a plan for but it’s extremely expensive. So I put my all into this relationship and it failed people on the spectrum only know how to give their whole heart and not be partially invested why would she get involved with me if all this was present from the beginning I never hid anything. Cause now that we have broken up she makes fun of me for those same exact things

[Anonymous]

She doesn’t sound like a nice person. You’re probably better off without her.

[Asker]

Yeah I have felt sad and embarrassed because it took so much out of me socially to even ask her out two years ago I was able to overcome it because I thought she was kind.

[Opinion Owner]

I’m sorry about that. I know that it’s easier said that done, but moving on will do you good. Embrace your qualities and know that you have a lot to offer and that there is someone out there who will appreciate you.

[Asker]

Couldn’t it be the same though like she acted nice

[Opinion Owner]

It could be, dating is pretty much a trial and error thing in my opinion. You’ll probably come across bad ones before you find a good one. I think it’s like that for a lot of people in general.