Are you currently in love? How does it feel?

[coachTanthony]

[OlderAndWiser]

It feels kinda like chicken.

Fried chicken!

And I'm an old Southern boy; I LOVE fried chicken!

[ObscuredBeyond]

Nerve-wracking. I have no idea if this is going to last, or she's gonna flake out.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not currently in love.

But when I was it felt so happy, I couldn’t dream of any bigger happiness.

It’s now the birthday of a person I love, I am happy he was born and I feel grateful, he made me feel as loved as he did, even if it ended.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

*Birthday of a person I LOVED.

Not anymore

[BigDog1989]

So, question is, if you loved him, why did it end

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@BigDog1989 That’s a very silly question.

[BigDog1989]

Not at all. If you loved him, why did it end. That's the point. Why did you leave him, if you love him

[mobiusforniner]

@BigDog1989 love doesn't always imply you are to be with that person. Sometimes love is letting go.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Does it take much for your mind to analyze that it’s not always a woman who chooses to leave?

Or Do you need me to tell you how heartbroken I am?

That’s not a nice question to ask at all.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am fine, it’s over. Please, don’t ask me any questions, other than what you can imply from my post,

It doesn’t take a genius to know questions they shouldn’t ask.

[BigDog1989]

Wow, no wonder you two broke up

[BigDog1989]

@mobiusforniner No, if you love someone, you make it work. My parents, have stayed together almost 38 years. THROUGH THE GOOD AND THE BAD

So, why is it she couldn't make the "love" work?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You bet, I did more than any girl will ever do for you :) Now, please have the common courtesy and stop asking questions that obviously remind people some traumatic events.

It’s not a movie or a book. Go read a book, if you want a love story.

[BigDog1989]

I just want to know why, if you loved him, you gave up

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

People like you have no more than two brain cells in their heads… I already gave an answer. Now, leave me alone, please.

[BigDog1989]

No, you didn't

You just re-iterated that you broke it off. And are only attacking. Stop attacking. All I'm doing is asking you a question

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Seems like I overestimated. One cell it is.

[BigDog1989]

Like i said, all you're doing is attacking, thus proving my point, of why you shouldn't be dating

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am not in the mood of pouring my heart and life dramas into total strangers. O don’t think there’s anything wrong with it. If you are that curious. Follow me and read my questions without asking the triggering questions for any of my painful memories.

[BigDog1989]

Hun, I literally just blocked you, and you continue to talk. You're what's called "bad seed" on here. All i did was ask you something, and you keep attacking me. You must be a republicuck too

[BigDog1989]

DO NOT REPLY

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

You’ve got to learn how to properly block people. Obviously I am not blocked.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What else shouldn’t I do?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Click my profile , then click “more” and there you’ll find “block”. Thanks.

[Zatsuma]

The good news is that you are still young and will probably feel it again. Just don't get discouraged. 🤗

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@Zatsuma Thank you 😇

[Datboi65]

Young love is overrated. I like to think that one day I will be able to have some sort of impact on the world in any field that I pick and help revolutionize entire industries. I'm hungry, driven and motivated to accomplish what many don't believe to be possible and I would stop at nothing to achieve my goals.

I believe for my current age demographic, relationships are just a big distraction. Get the experience you can and build your résumé, move up the ranks and make yourself a better man mentally, physically, financially and morally. Do not neglect your religion, do not neglect your well-being and try to spend time with your family when you can if you are in your 20s. Relationships and family-making should come ONLY AFTER you have your life together in the right order, because if you're a broken person you can't be healed through dating and relationships. If there's a void or a hole that exists in your soul, it cannot go away through getting in a committed relationship. Find out why it's there and figure out how to fix it. Dig deep if you have to, but don't drag someone else into your problems if you're incapable of fixing them by yourself.

We live life through different stages. Some people call it growth, I call it metamorphosis. Our minds are constantly influenced by what's around us, and our circumstances dictate our behavior and our psyche. If I'm not at a stage where I'm ready to be with someone, I'm not going to. A lot of people have no business being in relationships but they are. Two partner at different stages in their life are not going to make it work, it just can't happen. No amount of "love" can fix what can only fixed by self-awareness. You have to be realistic in your choices and your expectations of what you want out of your relationship, and if that's not being met then you should not be there.

I don't have the answers to most of my questions, but that's OK. God gave me two ears to learn and one mouth to talk and share what I learned, so until then I continue to learn until I believe I know enough where I can start that chapter of my life. Until then, I'm not in any hurry to "be in love".

[zero444440000]

"Young love is overrated." i just to feel the same way before i fell in love myself.

[Datboi65]

@zero444440000 You read the first sentence and didn't go through the whole thing.

Let me ask you a question young man, do you have any massive plans for the future? Where do you see yourself 5 years from now, 10 years from now or 30 years from now. Do you think it's easier to be grounded and focused on your goals, or to be distracted by something so early on in your journey that's not a guarantee?

[zero444440000]

"You read the first sentence and didn't go through the whole thing."i guess i kinda did? but i wasn't replying to anything other then the first sentence so i don't see the problem.
"Let me ask you a question young man, do you have any massive plans for the future?" yes i do i fact have some plans, thanks for asking.
"Do you think it's easier to be grounded and focused on your goals, or to be distracted by something so early on in your journey that's not a guarantee?" yeah it is easier to focus on something if you don't have something to be distracted by, but what do you mean not a guarantee? you talking about my love towards my girlfriend?

[Datboi65]

@zero444440000 How are you going to reply to my comment if you haven't read the full thing? You can't argue if you don't know the thought process behind what I said.

Yes, you're only 23 and probably a recent graduate of college with student loans (I don't know how it is in your country, I'm talking based of how it is in mine). In that time, you enter the workforce for the first time and start paying back your loans. You should think about retirement funds (401k and Roth IRA) as well as saving for a house in your 20s and building your résumé and instead you're here arguing with me about the "meaning of love".

Also, yes young relationships are not a guarantee. There's plenty that could go wrong. Unless you have your shit together, you're not mentally mature enough and don't have enough resources as of yet to have a successful relationship, that's just reality. I'm not here to put your hopes down, but you're the one who replied to my post so I am going to give you my input.

Build yourself first, then worry about building others after.

[zero444440000]

"How are you going to reply to my comment if you haven't read the full thing? You can't argue if you don't know the thought process behind what I said." i agree and i read it all now.
"Yes, you're only 23 and probably a recent graduate of college with student loans" i don't have any student loans thankfully.
"(I don't know how it is in your country, I'm talking based of how it is in mine). In that time, you enter the workforce for the first time and start paying back your loans." true.
"You should think about retirement funds (401k and Roth IRA) as well as saving for a house in your 20s and building your résumé" true, good thing i already have plans for a house, i have no plans to retire tho "something both my mother and father aren't planing on either"
"and instead you're here arguing with me about the "meaning of love"." its not your meaning of love i disagree with, its your mindset that love will somehow "distracted" form building your life and future up.
"Also, yes young relationships are not a guarantee." ture but neither does older ones or any for that matter.
"There's plenty that could go wrong." very ture.

[zero444440000]

"Unless you have your shit together, you're not mentally mature enough and don't have enough resources as of yet to have a successful relationship, that's just reality." for some this is reality i agree, but for some people they can't get there shit together or don't want to until they in a relationship, the same applies to begin mature enough, where i completely disagree with you tho is the not have enough resources successful relationship part, because good relationship have nothing to do with how much resources or money you have "if your planing on having a family then yeah i agree you need resources" the only thing that dictates a good successful relationship is communication, patients and working things out with each other. "I'm not here to put your hopes down," thank you and i don't think that i tho you were trying to put my hopes down. "but you're the one who replied to my post so I am going to give you my input." and i only gave you mine, so thank you for the thoughtful and long reply.
"he one who replied to my post so I am going to give you my input." i agree, but sometimes you can't do things on your own/some people can't build they themselves up on there own, some people need others to help them build themselves up and some people need to build themselves up together with someone else.

[Datboi65]

@zero444440000 Before I reply, I noticed you add everything in quotations and then respond after. I don't know if that's how your organize your structure, but it makes your reply hard to read. If you can just write your ideas in a normal paragraph that would be a lot easier.

Now, back to topic. First of all, glad you don't have student loans. Me personally, I don't have them either as thankfully my parents are capable of supporting my education. As it currently stands, I have a very long way ahead of me when it comes to training after graduation (I'm in med school) anything from 3 to 7 years additionally working at least 72 hours per week, so I can tell you for certain that getting a girlfriend right now will only ruin all of these plans. 2000 flash cards per day, exam questions and going through a book that contains at least 13 subjects so I can sit for an 8 hour exam by September. That's the kind of work I'm talking about. I'm only on here in my breaks, or after burnout and sometimes skipping on months before I come back to this website.

[Datboi65]

@zero444440000 I'm not special, I think anyone can do that if they work towards something that they believe in. Hell, there are probably people here doing more impressive stuff right now. The idea I want to put in your head is that when I say having mental maturity and resources, I'm not just talking about money. In one year I have learned a lot and changed a lot as a person, and I'm only 21. By the time I'm 30, I'm gonna be a very different person for better or for worse. The resources are not the motivation, they are a byproduct of the goal. The goal of being a physician is the motivation. The goal if being able to change the healthcare system for the better is the motivation. The goal to be a great provider for myself and my family is the motivation. Yes communication is important and sharing values and beliefs is absolutely important, but a high reason for divorce is related to financial mismanagement. 63% of the population are living paycheck-to-paycheck in the richest country in the world all because they don't have financial literacy. All of these are skills you acquire along the way, you don't just wake up one day with all the knowledge available to mankind and start being an expert. Your 20s are a learning decade, so jumping into any kind of relationship is not wise, unless she's willing to embark in the same journey to support you, which let's be honest you don't see a lot of that happening nowadays.

My outlook on life is realistic. I don't think the world is all shiny and butterflies, I don't think it's all dark and gloomy either. I think that if you plan things effectively and walk through your plan properly, you will be doing better than most and have absolutely no regrets.

[WhiteSteve]

I am, for many, many years now. She’s a good kid, I’m lucky to have her. A part of my nature will always resent having to alter the way I live my life in any way for anyone else’s comfort or benefit, but she doesn’t give me too hard of a time, haha, I can live with the occasional frustrations.

[Freyke]

It feels like I won the lottery. But also scary, holding her while she's sleeping makes me sad. Sometimes I think what I'd be without her. The chance to finding someone like her is small. And looking for someone like her is not something that I want to spend the rest of my life doing.

[musicbrain5]

Yes I am! Still madly in love after all these years. It feels like I just want to shout it out to the whole world. Kind of like when Tom Cruise jumped on Oprah’s couch, but not as crazy 😂

[DizzyDesii]

I’m in like every other month. I may even love you at some point but thats more of a deep care. Being in love is way more serious and hard to quit so I haven't been that in 4-5 years

[Daniela1982]

Never fall in love with a beautiful woman. I guess I'm available. 😂😅😉

https://www.youtube.com/embed/18PUMPDI73s

[Emily1975]

I am madly in love with my boyfriend he makes me happy I never thought I would fall in love again especially after losing my husband of 22 years 15 months ago he makes me feel happy I still miss my husband my boyfriend has been so supportive with everything I love him so much

[YesterdaysChild]

Not recently.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ln86-fteBOc

[Daniela1982]

I loved that song. I also loved this cover with just 2 people.
https://youtu.be/WkBIFfmgrDw

[YesterdaysChild]

@Daniela1982 His voice surprises me. They are good!

[Sarahr123]

Painful because he doesn’t know and probably never will because he doesn’t even want to talk to me

[Zatsuma]

That's sad. I hope you can fix it or learn from the experience.

[Anonymous]

It feels like he is the only person I want to talk to. I want to be around him all of the time and I can’t imagine losing him. I cry over him almost every night because I don’t know if we will ever end up together because we don’t want to risk losing our friendship. But he is everything to me.

[Nick1976G]

Happily i love and every day the feeling gets stronger. Each time I look at her, I cannot believe how much I love her and how I would do anything to make her smile.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I don't think I am. If I am, then I question who it is I'm falling for.

[ProbablyClueless]

Nah... I was in love for a little while, but this woman's apathy really killed my vibe for her.

[AnusNdaPainus]

Im not sure as I have never felt love before so I don’t think I can identify it

I can say the way I feel about her I have never felt about anyone else

[exitseven]

I have been in love for 27 years. It is a very comfortable feeling.

[sassyredhead]

I am in love and it's painful at times. Its a choice to be in love it's not all about the butterflies and love songs.

[BigDog1989]

Yep. That's why my parents have made it work for almost 38 years (August 17 of this year will be 38)

[andreasderjuengere]

I love my dogs as if they were my kids.

It feels good.

[JHNS98]

Mot at the moment, or maybe 🤔. Though I'm going on a date in three weeks time, so we'll see how that goes.

I actually don't know if I ever have been in love, I only remember every crush I've had.

[i_am_tbjxii]

I am I feel great for 4 years I recently proposed a Week ago. She’s the best thing that ever happened to me to be honest.

[Zatsuma]

Congrats !!! 💒

[i_am_tbjxii]

Sorry just seeing this thanks so much!

[Anony3942]

Have you ever listened to such a devastatingly beautiful song while driving fast into the sunset and just feeling pure happiness? That’s what it feels like

[Anonymous]

I love him and i see him as pure perfection, Even if i won’t get with him im happy for him bc he deserves the world <3

[Nikki1989]

I have been in love for over 7 years. It is the ultimate feeling a person can have.

[OddBeMe]

I do feel lucky I found my mate for life. It’s not easy nor likely tbh.

[Jamie05rhs]

I am not. (Going with the assumption that infatuation isn't love. Although I think it certainly can be. I think that someone can genuinely love someone else without being loved in return. Because true love is selfless.)

[sheenagwapa]

no i don't. i've been showinh two sexual proof already that i am Eve but this shit is really looking for the perfectesr partner. iam done.

[Anonymous]

I am. No confusion, no doubts, no worries. I feel safe, loved, and valued. One time he said every time we cuddle and he holds me it just feels right, and i feel the same way. Thats how i knew i was in love.

[Simslover92]

I am currently in love and it feels absolutely amazing!

[luvstoned4him]

I once was.. but currently I am not. It was a pretty amazing feeling though

[EmmaMary]

Blissfully in love for the past ten years and still counting.

[Anonymous]

How does it feel to be on the site 24/7? Do you even sleep or get out of your cave?

[Anonymous]

Yes, I am! I'm in love with my art studio. We have our ups and downs but right now we are in a really good place. I'm excited for the future.

[mayaJames]

Right now am not in love at all just a boring moment here

[LovingJo]

Sadly, not anymore 🥺

[BigDog1989]

Why not

[LovingJo]

Cos it was over a few months ago

[BigDog1989]

What happened?

[LovingJo]

He was a covert narcissist, who didn't fuck me enough or well enough.

[BigDog1989]

SO thats'a all you base your relationship on is sex. Sounds like you have a sex addiction problem

[LovingJo]

Lmfao, you've got no idea what you're talking about. I'd stop there if I were you

[BigDog1989]

hahahahah, i beg to differ

[LovingJo]

OK. Try getting far with that kind of attitude. You won't. 💯

[Mansearching]

@LovingJo... sorry to hear that. Hope you're doing good.

[DancingQueen16]

It feels great to me

[BigDog1989]

At 19?

[Anonymous]

Yes and it feels awful because the guy doesn't want me.

[zero444440000]

feels like am cloud 9 and like my life has meaning now.

[Jltakk]

I was once. It felt horrible. Clouded my mind, couldn't think clearly. Already struggled with focus. Was a bad time.

[OfMiceandMen]

Feels great, love my pups!

[WhitneySnow]

Feels amazing

[Kelly6]

I’m in love for 20 years

[Kelly6]

And want to keep this way

[TheeTrybrid]

I'm falling in love with myself

[its-wendy]

You just know that you want to spend your entire life with them!

[boobliker]

it feel shit when she not here

[msc545]

I am not.

[DermalPunch]

What are you talking about? You're in love with me. Did you forget? 🫠

[msc545]

@DermalPunch shhhh!

[Daniela1982]

@DermalPunch Sounds like you have to give him a punch for that one.

[DermalPunch]

@Daniela1982 haha. We're just playing.

[Jmmmfi4]

Not even close

[SnowedIn]

Yes and awesome!

[Anonymous]

yes! It feels amazing:)

[Christoff92]

Bring up the serotonin levels. It magnificent.

[BigDog1989]

I'm not, though I've thought I am

[BigDog1989]

lol, she couldn't handle me, so, she blocked me. Childish much?

[Guardian45]

Naw. Life sucks, then you die!

[ummi59]

Iam in love and it feels good to be in love

[AɴᴋᴀʀᴀBᴇʏᴇғᴇɴᴅɪꜱɪ]

i'm not in love right now

[Teriyaki70]

Not anymore booo

[Raaj4you]

No, I am not.

[muscles_glasses]

I have a crush on someone but its complicated

[KrakenAttackin]

Nope.