My boyfriend gets mad at me for not hanging out with him?

[Anonymous]

i've strict parents so i cannot hang out with him often and he says make some frnds so that u can lie ur parents about meeting them and then meet me... but i dont have much frnds :( so he says..''u dont even have frnds i've seen such type of girl for the first time in my life''... is it my fault that i dont have frnds? i do have but its just that they r not trustworthy. He said go make some good frnds and hanged up the call and i felt very bad..

[BadApple69]

First off and most important…. If you have to lie for someone (I mean he is telling you to lie) then that’s someone you don’t need to be hanging around.
Think about it, if he tries to get you to lie then lying isn’t an issue for him… then he will lie to you. Don’t lower yourself to be with this guy.
If this guy was a real man, and I know, I have done this… he should go to your parents and ask if he can take you out! Sounds old fashioned but that’s a hell of a lot better then getting you to lie for him!

[Asker]

Yeah ikr
What do u think of his opinion on me not having any frnds?

[BadApple69]

Friends can be over rated. The number isn’t important. The quality of friends is. I would take 2 great friends over 20 not so good friends.
Him bringing up your lack of friends is belittling. Also shows lack of character on his part.
I don’t know you but from what you said about him… you can do better.

[Asker]

Yeah thanks…
Hopefully he is apologising now that he was wrong..

[Subflics]

You essentially need to choose your adventure with your boyfriend or your parents pleasure with you. I snuck out as a child and did wild boy shit and I didn't regret it. Just don't do hard drugs

[Asker]

Yeah sure..

[In_Trance]

Unrealistic expectations are a relationship killer