Am I overreacting or no and what should I do about him?

[lexih201213]

So my boyfriend keeps talking to a girl that clearly makes me feel uncomfortable. He has been friends with her for three years but I heard from his other friends he had a sexual relationship with her in the past before we got into a relationship. He keeps denying it. She just criticized me and makes fun of me to him. I told him to stop talking to her and he said he would like three times but I keep seeing he keeps talking to her behind my back. Am I overreacting for not wanting him to talk to her and what should I do because he is not respecting what I ask of him.

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[Lionman95]

I would say no you´re not overreacting. I would ask think about breaking up if you can because he probably has still feelings for her, too. So if you´re not interested in sharing him give an ultimatum and make him decide between the two of you. Since he is obviously not interested in giving her up I would increase on him and make him decide. I don´t there is much else left for you besides that.

[Mamaliv]

I think it is unfair to ask your partner to stop talking to anyone, because they’ll do what they want either way. Less disappointment when you find out they’re still talking.
But, this to me sounds like he has a thing for her. If he was choosing you over her, he would not just allow her to continue to say shit about you. He isn’t putting you first and you can take that however you want, I for one am not willing to be anything but first. If he’s interested in someone else than please don’t waste my time.

[Lokiion]

It’s not about that it’s a respect thing and yes you can’t stop them from talking to someone but if you feel like he got a thing for her say you will leave if you see him do it again if he doesn’t talk to her anymore then they just friends if he does they more then that either way you will get an answer to your question it’s also probably the best choice you can pick

[April_love]

You should break up with him I was in a relationship like this !!! Break up I know it’s hard but it’s better if he makes you feel like an Orion and doesn’t respect you by saying no and expression your feelings think of what will happen next ! A bigger problem in a more Sirius situation. he doesn’t deserve your love of he’s going to play with it

[Lokiion]

Nah don’t break up yet that’s silly

[Finchie40]

if he truly values you and wants to continue the relationship with you he needs to end contact with that other girl period , if he can’t do that for you, then kick him to the curb where he belongs, it’s disrespectful , tell him he either stops talking to her or it’s over between you and tell him you will find another guy that doesn’t need another girl on his life

[Avicenna]

No, he should respect your wishes on this matter

[Lokiion]

You not overreacting anyways tell sonething along the lines of this “I’ve asked you 3 times to stop talking to her and everything time I keep seeing you with her if I see you with her one more time we are breaking up” now if he respects you and loves you he will do just that if he doesn’t you will know he not the one for you and so you should stand on your ground and break up with him and No don’t be weird and keep his number or socials don’t even block them just delete them and move on

[Billlewis]

I think you should have an in depth conversation with him about this and try to get to the bottom of it.

[hardboiledink]

You need boundaries in a relationship it's healthy. Like don't talk to other people you aren't comfortable with them talking to especially opposite sex

[Anonymous]

He must stop talking to her at least if he respect you cuz u asked him for that
But im sure he is cheating on u lol

[jahaims]

Dump him. He has zero respect for you

[In_Trance]

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