So I been talking to this guy for ten months now. We are long distance and I have bought airplane tickets and saw him twice. I been asking him to come out to see me and he said to me yesterday oh I am traveling so much this summer and it’s not to come visit me. He travels with his girl best friend. I got mad and jealous yesterday because he will travel with her but can’t even bother to see me. Am I overreacting or no
It's understandable that you would feel upset and frustrated if the person you have been talking to for ten months is not making an effort to come visit you, especially if they are traveling with someone else. However, it's important to communicate your feelings to him in a calm and clear manner, rather than reacting with anger or jealousy.
It's possible that there may be legitimate reasons why he is unable to come visit you at this time, but it's important for him to be transparent and honest with you about his intentions and priorities. If he is not willing to make an effort to see you, despite your past efforts to visit him, it may be a sign that he is not as invested in the relationship as you are.
Ultimately, it's up to you to decide whether you want to continue investing your time and energy into this relationship, given the current circumstances. If you feel like your needs are not being met or that the relationship is not progressing in a way that feels fulfilling to you, it may be time to re-evaluate the situation and consider moving on.
You're not overreacting. As someone who was in an LDR - it is brutal to go long periods of time without seeing each other. If he's not making commensurate effort to see you, you should stop expending so much emotional energy on making this work.
I would think it would be normal to be a little hurt. You just want the same kind of reciprocation with seeing each other. It should always be as equals possible
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No you aren’t , dump him , stop wasting your time , he clearly doesn’t value or respect you
Long distance, almost never works. Try finding someone nearby. He's basically saying "f off"
No, something probably going on there. He got you as the side piece. If you the one that has to continue to go see him. Lol
I don't think your overreacting.
I would be pissed off aswell if my Girlfriend wanted to Travel with another Guy.
He’s not making you a priority but enjoys it when you sacrifice for him. He’s a tool
Drop him.
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