Did I do something?

[Anonymous]

I and this lady have been hanging out. She told me earlier that she is enjoying her single life and does not want a relationship. After several weeks, we'd hang out at mine Netflix & chill. I'd visit her at her apartment. In last couple days I was unable to leh her come over. Her replies had changed as though she is upset with something. Haven't seen her in 4 days. She called me last night to ask how am I doing because I didn't show up to a mutual friends celebration. I told her we need to talk. I want to iron things out and understand why she's acting so, we are enjoying the moments I thought she did. I also asked her out for breakfast Friday morning and she said she got things to do. Knowing how she is I know that wasn't the case What do y'all think, what should I emphasis on when I meet her?

[_Maya_]

No you're overthinking this. She made it clear she is not interested in a relationship. Leave it be dude. The more you push the more she is going to push back. As for why she changed? Who knows? Maybe bad week or maybe she had stuff planned. Doesn't matter. She is busy with something. Did you never have a bad day or week? Are you all peaches when you do have a shit day? No. We all got our ups and downs. Main point is she told you not interested in a relationship but I feel that's what you're pushing for regardless.

[Asker]

I totally understand you. I don't want to make it seem like I was using her or something. she is mutual friends with my guys y'know so I don't need it to be awkward with her. I enjoyed how we was. But it's time to find out when I see her today what happened and why her tone of text has differed from what it used to be

I may be pushing for a relationship unknowingly.

[_Maya_]

Here is what I suggest. Stay friends and hang out. You never know what can happen in the future. She could be open to a relationship later. Guess what? There ya are when she is.

[boobliker]

she worred about rebound and if she likes you or not?

[Avicenna]

Don't run after her

[In_Trance]

too much drama