Should you ever tell your future husband about past physical relationship or number of boyfriends?

[Anonymous]

[BasedBaeBecca]

I firmly believe that honesty and transparency are vital elements for a healthy relationship. So, it's best to be honest with your future husband about your past physical relationships and the number of boyfriends you've had, if he asks about it.

Keeping secrets and hiding information will only create distrust and resentment in the long run. It's also essential to establish trust and respect, which are essential pillars in any successful marriage.

There's no need to hide the truth. If you've done nothing wrong, then why be ashamed of it?

[LazerBean]

I guess that depends on if you think you have a lot more to be ashamed about than he does.

[Fireguy17]

only if he asks, then remind him that once I tell you, I can't untell you, so if you aren't ready for the answer, don't ask the question.
Which can pertain to just about everything.

[inhua]

a relationship shouldn't have any secrets including finances, past behaviors, criminal history and yes sexual history too

[Asker]

What if she fears about being judged? Chances of judging her by her husband?

[inhua]

then he won't be her future husband in that case.

everything comes at a cost. for the future husband, he is paying for someone whom other men had to pay less more and in some cases didn't have to pay at all

if a woman truly loves her future husband, she wouldn't make him pay anything especially when other men have gotten what they wanted from her for free

[Asker]

I agree with you 💯 do you think body count 1 and 3 bfs very high?

[inhua]

that would depend if that 1 body count came from 1 of the 3 boyfriends. if so, it shows she values herself and her future relationship

as for why her body count is 1 could be due to her finally trusting the last boyfriend enough to break her own rules and then he cheated or he died in a car crash or perhaps he just forced himself onto her without consent all of which would not be her fault

however if that body count of 1 is not from of her boyfriends but from being drunk and hooking up with some random guy at a party, then there could be some problems there

[Anonymous]

I've never told them and I never asked them either. Just never came up in any conversations. Would I tell them if they ask. Probably as it's not a high number.

[HelpfulWoman]

Yes. Since to some, number is a deal breaker.

[Asker]

I really think so

[Anonymous]

No once they hear about even one guy they never shut up about it.

[marish01]

Sure becayse it's 0

[VforVindication]

Yeah right. You are a virgin? I need proof.

[karekaaaa]

Noooo dont do

[Asker]

Do you think body count 1 and 3 failed relationships bad?

[karekaaaa]

No why?

[jahaims]

Duh.