Girlfriend refusing STD Test I already paid for, she's claiming she took one a year ago. Is there even one person who doesn't think something up?

[Anonymous]

Together 2 years

She complained of pain in her vaginal area week ago

She bleeding dark red quite a bit multiple days during ovulation phase

So I told her go see doc, she downplayed symptoms

I got off and buy full panel tests we take at home and mail off to lab. Could'nt be easier

She gets mad that I would buy them. She tells me she took one over year ago which I never saw any results for. Just more and more defensiveness.

I'm done with relationship as a result but curious if there is even one person who could see her behavior as anything other then huge 🚩

She getting defensive to hide the truth

She genuinely believes she clean and spending 5 mins to get pee and blood sample too much work

Other

[provokeesmokee]

Free test to make sure her bleeding isn't due to disease?

Why would any thinking person refuse that?

She's sus af.
Even if she didn't cheat, she's not someone taking her health seriously.

[butterly248]

Tell her she has to take it. Because you paid for it

[Ironic_Method]

It's suspicious, but it could just because she's afraid of facing the fact she might have an STD. Lots of people try to avoid impending problems and hope they go away on their own.

[Drumlin2001]

You bought for both of you to take or just her? Cause if just her you are basically accusing her of cheating

[TheSpaceGnome]

Huge red flag.

Get yourself tested, hope it's clean, and leave her.

[jeffend888]

I think you can figure this one out for yourself.

[inhua]

cheaters always get defensive

[Staximus]

She needs to go to the doctor

[HelpfulWoman]

Definitely dodgy

[balyai]

She's sus. Make her take it or break up

[jahaims]

Sus.