My girlfriend has asked if I'd be open to moving next year. Should I be worried?

[Anonymous]

Should I be worried?

We moved into our current flat in May. She visited her parents up North over the last 3 days and came back yesterday.

She had a great time by all accounts, but she was obviously really sad to have left them. She was crying a bit.

She has asked me if I'd consider moving away to be closer to her family in a year or so.

We're going to discuss it together, of course.

My family, however, are from the South, and I'm just a bit worrier that it'll be far from them.

If we find a place that's half way between our families, it'd be good.

She currently lives a 7-hour drive from them, which is really far. We drove up North a couple of months ago and it was a truck for both of us.

What do you guys think?

Updates

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We're from France

[Chris123432169]

Hmm same state I think u shouldn’t move at all and just take time to visit family every month or soo

[Asker]

We're from France. I should have added that.

[Chris123432169]

Hmm well maybe moving half way would be something to consider

[SnowedIn]

You live in the UK right?

[Asker]

From France

[SnowedIn]

My short answer is you should not be worried.

But also, when a girlfriend wants to live near family, don't fight it. You don't have to move, but that want isn't one you will change.

[BLP11520]

You would have many children

[Asker]

What do you mean?