Girl I just started to get to know is telling me that she’s might move to a new city next year, added I should move to. Is she hinting anything?

[Anonymous]

I just started getting to know a girl that I found attractive. She’s very cool. But the other day we started talking about her future plans and she mentioned moving next year but right away she added you should move too and smiled. I met her not too long ago, so we barely know each other. She found my social media accounts too and added me.

[OlderAndWiser]

Is the anticipated distance insurmountable?

Spend some time getting to know her before she moves. If she moves and you feel strongly about her, visit her in her new hometown a few times and invite her to return to visit you. After a few of those visits, you'll know if moving makes sense.

[Asker]

I agree with your strategy. She did state having the opportunity to stay cause of job offer in town and could stay two more years. I’m just wondering if a woman would tell this to a guy she just met last week if she wasn’t interested?

[OlderAndWiser]

She has some initial excitement about you, but remember that doesn't always hold up over the span of time. Don't get yourself too invested too quickly!