Boyfriend texted a local girl while in a relationship with me,? And talked about other girls to me?

[Anonymous]

Okay I know I'm gonna get judged but I looked through my boyfriends phone last night. He's been so sneaky with it lately and I just felt something in my gut was telling me too. We have been together 9 months, baby on the way, he's 33 I'm 30. He texted a local girl on Instagram in March saying " holy fu*k wow are you single ' then on his tiktok he has saved videos local girls (not even celebrities) when he told me he's not like that. In really hurt over the text to that girl. What should I do? He will go mad and blame me if he knows I went on his phone. Also last night he was drunk and annoying me, talking about a guy he knows. He said "ph he gets gorgeous drop dead gorgeous girls, they be way out of my league. That also annoyed and hurt me I don't no how to react or feel

[Anonymous]

I go through my boyfriend's phone also. It has made me have low self esteem, body issues etc. He has chested on me in the past and has a porn addiction.

We didn't have sex this week and I'm doing everything not to go though his phone or his computer rn. Please leave, you gotta have some self respect. Because I don't want you to become a doormat like me 😞

[Asker]

I'm so sorry your going through this ♥

[Opinion Owner]

I have a similar post to yours in my drafts rn. I may post it. If I make my answer public do u wanna dm?

[In_Trance]

fkn ridiculous... you're both knuckleheads