Boyfriend apparently flirted with other girls behind my back?

[Anonymous]

We've been together 6 months, but apparently he was at the pub the other day with his friends and was like "This pub is so good for meeting loads of hot girls" and was like scoping out the talent there. Apparently when we were talking/before we made things official but we were exclusive he went into a room with a girl at a party "but they didn't do anything." And then at new-years eve when I wasn't there he was flirting with another girl who was there and saying she was pretty.

Granted this was months ago, but what should I do? This is my first relationship. He hasn't actually slept with anyone else but apparently he was definitely "looking for girls" and flirting occasionally.

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My friends say he's probably just not as dedicated to the relationship back then as he is now, but should I be worried?

[Guccigabbana18]

You could talk to him about it, but he would probably lie to you tbh. Who would own up to it?

I don't think he is that "dedicated." He is clearly shopping around behind your back which is always a bad sign. It sounds like he gets to stay with you while looking for other options he can hop to in the mean time.

There are so many guys who would treat you way better even in the early stages. I would be rid of this boyfriend if I'm honest.

[bubblegunnn]

Aw babe sorry it happened to u!
Just let him flirt to bitches as long as he want
And u walk out his life and end it
Go find someone valuable and worthy for u babe
there's lots of good guy for u cuz u deserve it

[FrenchBassist]

i am sorry but I don't think he is that into you... otherwise he would not had done that. When you are in love with a girl, she's all you think about and the only one you wanna be with. Maybe he is trying to have "options" in case you two break up... you definitely should talk to him about this, but without accusing him or attacking him. Just let him now gently how you feel about this...

[TheFlak38]

Just another selfish bitch and her double standards. It's only a red flag when the man does it. When the woman explores her THOUSANDS of other options then it's fair play. #FemaleDoubleStandards

[WhitneySnow]

If he’s looking to meet hot girls while he’s in a relationship with you that’s a problem

[Moonshae]

he sounds like he is not invested in the relationship. I would be cautious if you get involved with him. he probably has had sex and is telling lies

[Emii_Urashima]

He doesn't sound like the type to be faithful to one girl.

[goodgirlsteven]

sooo let him flirt thats what guys do, just beglad u get to take him home and fk him