What does it mean when a man says, "being with you is like a waste?

[Anonymous]

I'm confused because I been a good wife. We have two kids... I clean and cook. The only time I ever get upset is when he make these hurtful comments. I'm the only one that's working right now and I have been there for him. Now he's calling me a waste. It hurts because I been there for him and I also think he doesn't find me attractive anymore. I had two kids back to back and I know I have gained weight. He complains about us not having sex but I have been really tired and plus I have lupus. I feel like shit.

[YesterdaysChild]

I think you should reverse that as he is the "waste" it seems. Does he help out around the house seeing as he is not working? Maybe it's time to call his bluff and tell him if he feels that way then maybe he should leave. Oh, and you will give him the kids too. He has no job or place to live as well as no means to care for kids. Time for him to either shut up or GTFO. He sure has no empathy for you at all.

[LazerBean]

Sounds like he's just projecting his own low value. It's fairly typical of people with low self-esteem to criticize people close to them.

[Anonymous]

He sounds like a waste, he isn’t even working? How can he make comments like that? Maybe if he helped out since he isn’t working you wouldn’t be so tired and have sex

[soniaaaaaaa]

That mean he doesn’t get what he wants from you it might be a very unreasonable request

[Ms_Facesitter]

He means he wants to make you feel like shit, he succeeded. Stop seeing him.

[Spongebobssocks]

Lol block him